Does this mean im bi?

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  1. AvgM4le

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    Hello everyone,

    Im new here at lpsg and this being my first post plz dont be too critcal of my grammer. Anyway, my question is this...

    Im a straight male, and I dont consider myself to be gay. However, I did put 1% gay because im not attracted to men, but I do enjoy looking at pics/vids of guys with large penises. When im watching porn theres gotta be big cock in it. It turns me on to see the girls expression when he pulls out a big one.

    My question: is it normal for straight guys to like this? And does the fact that I look for porn based on the size of penis in it make me BI? I know labels dont matter, but im curous to know. Figured this wud be the perfect to ask such a question.
     
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    looking at large cocks does not make you bi
    wanting to play with them does
    relax welcome to the group and enjoy yourself
     
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    thanx for the welcome
     
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    First off, Welcome :biggrin1:

    Secondly yes!! If not, why would all of the most popular porn stars be hung? (yes, even the straight ones)
     
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    I agree, its the wanting to play with them that makes you less than straight, the whole looking at them fascination could be a just literally visual fantasy in that you would like yourself to have a huge dick and can see the pleasure the woman gets from it (she could be faking tho cos using it right has gotta be better than size)
     
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    yeah, guys are just flat-out curious about other guys' dicks.

    it's fun, and not worth the time spent worrying about it to get distracted 'cause sex should feel good and be fun.
     
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    I am gay, when I first discovered this site I was doubtful about all the guys that say they are straight but like penises and comparing and watching and all that. But now that I have been here for a while, I have learned that straight guys really have a fascination with the dick, but it isn't the same as the gay guys fascination.

    If you ever start dreaming about a handsome guy and getting a hard on, or about having a hot dick in your mouth, or similar, maybe you are more gay than you think, but liking to see the girls reaction in a porn when the guy pulls out a big dick, that ain't gay.

    Regardless, WELCOME, and thanks for the honesty.
     
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    as my name implies.. i am average size, but my girl is well satisfied. so ive got no inferiority complex problems, but sometimes i do like to imagine its me wielding the hockey stick.
     
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    welcomeAVG....you are a regular guy...not to fear....and even if u do want to play with a cock....who cares....no one here will...and many will encourage same....have fun..no judgements unless you ask, then watch out...you will get plenty of remarks.
     
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    sexuality is a complex matter, you'll discover it eventually.
    Just looking at a cock doesn't mean your bi.
    Even jerking off with a male friend doesn't need to make you gay.
    And some would say receiving or even giving another guy a blow job still doesn't make you bi.

    You are you, you shouldn't worry too much about where you fall on the black/white bar, I made that mistake, it's frustrating and at the same time not worth it.
     
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    I know I will sound like a broken record (cause I have said this so many times now) But just because you have watched cricket or hell even played a couple of games does not make you a cricketer. You need to live the life and personaly identify as a cricketer to be a cricketer. Same goes for sexuality.
     
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    100% Straight
    0% Cricket (Where did this new word for gay come from?)
     
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    It's an analogy.
    lol
     
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    Hi, and welcome to the Group, AvgM4le.

    Weirdly, there seems to be more cock on show in straight porn than there is in gay porn.

    I know I'm generalising, but typically in straight porn you get a good look at the guys cock and, as you mention, the girl's reaction to it. Then she'll fondle it. If there's a blow job there'll be lots of licking, maybe a bit of face-slapping and rubbing, and while sucking she'll take it out of her mouth and look at it a few times. Often when fucking the guy will pull out now and again. And, of course, he'll pull out for the cum shot. Whereas in gay porn, all too often you'll get one glimpse of the erect penis, then it's rammed into an orifice never to be seen again! Wtf! Blow-jobs consist of endless deep throating. Fuck scenes are all thrusting hips, swinging balls and painful grimaces. Usually they'll pull out for the cum shot, but not always.

    Most male porn-stars that are famous primarily for their size appear mainly in straight porn.

    So, I'd say that your taste in porn is typically straight. (As long as you don't fantasize about pushing the girl out of the way and getting a bit of big cock action yourself.) :wink:
     
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    I agree with Charles Finn

    but...

    bi or not, who cares? I think you know exactly what you are/wanna be, don't you?
     
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    It's normal for the members on this site :rolleyes:
     
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    Isn't that because a lot of the guys in gay porn are gay for pay and it's a case of, "Quick, get it in while it's still hard, and for God's sake, pretent you're turned on"?

    It's the opposite of soft-core, which I started out in, but ends up looking very similar. We weren't allowed to actually penetrate or show a hard cock, so there was a lot of close contact and short thrusting and the director wasn't too happy if we stayed hard while pretending to fuck or be fucked as it made his and the editor's jobs harder. These days, no-one wants to see a soft cock, so they have to work to keep them out of shot.
     
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    Really?

    Bats
    Balls
    Stumps

    sounds like gay code

    I'd be carefull

    Those big knee pads - not used for kneeling in church.

    And I'd run the other way if they start talking about a sticky wicket :biggrin1:
     
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