does this mean...?

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  1. D_asp09xcv

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    dose it make you gay if you like to look at penis's?

    i have seriously wondered about what itd be like to be with a guy, but it just isnt very appealing to me.
    does just wanting to look mean i'm:confused: gay?
     
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    Not necessarily at all. All it definately means is that you are human.
     
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    I don't think so..
     
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    Not Neccessarily...all Guys Like To Check Out Other Dudes Around Them...it's All Part Of Comparison And The Human Way Of Life. I Feel That Everyone Wants To Know Where They Stand!
     
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    the question is, does it make you straight if you look at pussies?
     
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    Do you want to fall to your knees and suck every last drop of semen out of it while getting off on making another man shoot a load?

    No? Then you're not gay, just curious about other guys.
     
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    i look for my friend penis to compare with me
     
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    nah, unless the sight or thought of another penis sexually arouses you and sex with a woman doesn't, then you're not gay. there are plenty of reasons why straight or minimally bi guys like to look at penises. comparison. curiosity. we fixate on our own members so much, it's kind of natural to fixate on another from time to time.
     
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    Someone mentioned this before but even without sexual excitement, erections, like yawns, are contagious. If one man gets one and others see it, they tend to get erections too. Apparently it's something to do with the idea that if one man detects an aroused female then other men take it as a sign that they may have a chance with her and so become aroused in preparation for the possible sexual encounter.
     
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    Men are "wired" to be aroused visually. Gazing at either gender can (then) be titillating under certain situations.

    The (inner) guilt we men carry around about this reaction is crazy.

    Of all the topics we've covered and re-hashed in this forum over what?
    seven years now(?)...worrying about being curious of another's guy's penis---must rank right up there among the top five concerns.

    But, it's still a good one to keep bringing to the forefront. We need to keep telling ourselves: Our curiosity is completely normal.

    ESPECIALLY among us men.

    Men of ALL ages deal with these feelings. They're just not discussed...OPENLY that is. --Except for here. :wink:
     
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    If men show a fear of looking at naked pictures of men or their penises, or go overboard in their reaction to not to want to see them, it is most likely a sign that they really do want to look at them. I see this all the time on TV and in person. If typical heterosexual men see pics of naked men or their dicks without a woman in the picture, the general reactions is: Yuck...I don't want to see naked men (they must all be turned off really bad by their own bodies then). I'd be more convinced of their sexual orientation if they were to react in disinterest instead of disgust and repulsion.

    general reaction of disgust or repulsion to pictures of naked me as a heterosexual man = reaffirmation of their real desire to see what that man's packing
     
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    both benderton2001 and Jason have very good points.

    I've always wondered about my attraction. I have had some limited sex with guys, i.e. mutual masturbation, no oral and not really much else which usually puts me at odd with most gay men I know. There all into relationships and definitely into doing more things such as anal sex which I find a turn-off. Where does that put me?
     
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    Don't concern yourself with labels. That is all they are...just labels.
     
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    Not at all. It is very common for straight guys to like looking at other penises. Just like many staright women like to look at other
    woman's breasts. It is curiousity and totally normal.
     
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