I think there are many permutations in these type of scenarios that are going to get a range of differing responses from different women, so Im interested to see what type of answers and/or explanations go into this particular thread.
My sister in law is in a relationship with a guy. I don't much care for him, but to his credit he does dutifully provide for their family unit, and no matter how we perceive his treatment of her, he definitely has endeared himself to her, so what ever makes her happy.. He just recently had a health scare that required immediate drastic action(amputation of a digit) and so is currently in the hospital recovering and in need of support when he gets out....during his stay the sister in law happened to find evidence in his phone of possible cheating or at least attempts to do so...obviously she was emotional about it upon finding out, but has resolved to stay with him.
So.my question is, is there a limit to your forgiveness or at least a temporary overlooking of whatever trangresssion in the midst of trauma/recovery or does said transgression nullify any expectation of support? Do you feel subject to the same, as in do you feel your spouse/SO should forgive or at least temporarily overlook a transgression found after the fact of your particular trauma?
My sister in law is in a relationship with a guy. I don't much care for him, but to his credit he does dutifully provide for their family unit, and no matter how we perceive his treatment of her, he definitely has endeared himself to her, so what ever makes her happy.. He just recently had a health scare that required immediate drastic action(amputation of a digit) and so is currently in the hospital recovering and in need of support when he gets out....during his stay the sister in law happened to find evidence in his phone of possible cheating or at least attempts to do so...obviously she was emotional about it upon finding out, but has resolved to stay with him.
So.my question is, is there a limit to your forgiveness or at least a temporary overlooking of whatever trangresssion in the midst of trauma/recovery or does said transgression nullify any expectation of support? Do you feel subject to the same, as in do you feel your spouse/SO should forgive or at least temporarily overlook a transgression found after the fact of your particular trauma?