actually, the gayest jeans in the world, and please back me up here guys, are "whisker" jeans and the ones which look like they've been bleached down the front of front of the legs. please see the "metrosexual" episode of south park for clarification.
I'm politely disagreeing with you on this one. It's a matter of definition. Whiskering a pair of jeans is a much more subtle effect than bleaching a good portion of the legs. In either case, they're just accent pieces designed to have something distinctive stand out on what would otherwise be a piece of denim. I don't care how awesome or high-quailty the denim may be. You need to rough it up a bit to really stand out.
Now, if you pair those jeans up with the obligatory pink button down, popped up collar, tight tee, gradiated shade sunglasses, spiked hair, highlights, too much fuckin' costume jewelry. Okay, you gotch'yerself some homo-ness.
Take a moment to consider just how many retailers of jeans are doing stuff like this to their denims. Other than maybe a classic brand like Levi Strauss or Jordache, denim is getting beat up all around the board because (most people) get the aesthetic value and interest in wearing something like this. Girls like their boys to look good. (So would other boys in a romantic context, sure.)
Personally, I'd like to see the ridiculously huge A&F / Hollister / shredded-up jeans fad die a hard and swift death...