Does you care if your woman has slept with many men?

[Chrysippus]

I am married, so not in the market for a g/f, but for me I would be interested not so much in how many men she's had inside her but in how many relationships she had previously. Too many of those would suggest that she has little staying power, i.e. either easily bores or cannot accept the imperfections of real men, in which case she would not be worth my time. Nice as it would be to imagine there something totally unique about me that would mean she would stay with me for life when she only lasted a year or two each with 10 other men, I am not a fool.

If you feel this way, hire a good P.I.

And 'something totally unique about me'? Get fuckin' real, Narcissus.

 

[Acratopotes]

And 'something totally unique about me'? Get fuckin' real, Narcissus.

I think you have misunderstood what I meant. I was actually saying that I don't think a leopard changes its spots.

I am also generally open minded and give people the benefit of the doubt but I did have someone in mind when I wrote that - an attractive woman who is on her fifth man in ten years and has had children with most of them, in one case moving on to the next man while pregnant with the previous man's child. She persuded the man she has just divorced to get a vasectomy so now he has to do battle for access/custody not only to maintain contact with his children whom he loves but because he can't start over with someone else. Her latest b/f thinks he has a great catch and wouldn't thank me for telling him otherwise but I predict it wil end in tears.