Does your family know that you are bisexual or a swinger?

[catman]

I have always suspected my Pop was....he once said "when you grab a rope you have to swing both ways" and grabbed his (sizable) crotch laughing....hmmmm

 

[D_Pondscum Fullsac]

My parents don't know.. My gf doesn't know.. Nobody knows

 

[secondbest69]

my ex wife and some of my ex girlfriends know and the only one in my family that knows are my two brothers.even with me being a grown man i could never come out to my mom my dad died years ago they never talked to my brothers and sisters about sex

 

[4herplsr]

My experience is that the Swinger's world I'm a part of is very prejudiced against male bisexuality. I think it can be very good with the right person but one has to hide it from the majority of swinger's.

 

[hotheadguy]

It seems that many of you are married to someone who is equally bi. I'm interested to know how you each found out about the other one's bi-sexuality. Did you both know about it when you married, or did it somehow come out later? And where your brother or other family member knows, did you just blurt it out, or what?

I used to think I was str8, but the "other" side of me has been getting stronger. I think I'd like to be in a relationship with a bi lady, but don't know how to begin (other than advertising, but that's not how I like to meet people!!)

 

[B_willy5904]

It seems that many of you are married to someone who is equally bi. I'm interested to know how you each found out about the other one's bi-sexuality. Did you both know about it when you married, or did it somehow come out later?

My wife and I met in college. She found out I was bi the first night we fucked. My roommate came into the room that evening as we were screwing. We invited him to join us. My roommate and I that year shared most of the women we brought to our dorm room. The three of us fucked each other without any boundaries. She found it very hot watching Todd and I suck and fuck each other as she took a break from the action. That evening she told Todd and I that she enjoyed having sex with women. I don't know if we had a word for it back then, or when we started to say that we we all bisexuals.

My wife had some lesbian experiences with girl friends in high school. After meeting up with Todd and I she started to explore that side of her sexuality more. By end of our junior year in college we had a steady group of 4 couples that we were swinging with on a daily basis. These are the same people that we live and share our lives with today,

And where your brother or other family member knows, did you just blurt it out, or what?

My brother has known I was bisexual as long as I can remember, at least since high school, probably junior high. My parents found out by witnessing it. They had come by the house unannounced and found my wife and I fucking 2 other couples pool side in our back yard. The next weekend at our family dinner my mother asked us straight out about it. :redface:

 

[Straight82]

as the male half of a swinging couple, i can say, no, my parents dont know, they probably never will. my dad might give me a high five and be like "good on ya" my mom would freak the hell out, my parents are way too conserative to even WANT to hear anything about my sex life, not even on accident
keep in mind, their reactions arent in any way associated with homophobia, my mother has had many gay and lesbian friends over the years, and my dad doesnt really care one way or the other about gays and lesbians.. they just dont wanna hear about it

now my fiancee on the other hand, her parrents have been swingers for 30 years at least.. we had to tell them, simply to make sure we dont intermingle people that we know, or parties that they are attending will not be attended by us.. that would just be awkward

 

[prince_will]

No one knows about my bisexuality. I guess i'm just too touchy about it. I had a female friend who came out about her bisexuality to me, but i didn't reciprocate. I should've though. Well, i still can. If she could share something like that with me, why can't i do the same? Anyways, no one in my family would really understand, so i just keep it to myself.

 

[B_willy5904]

as the male half of a swinging couple, ....

now my fiancee on the other hand, her parrents have been swingers for 30 years at least.. we had to tell them, simply to make sure we dont intermingle people that we know, or parties that they are attending will not be attended by us.. that would just be awkward

Did you introduce your fiancée to swinging, or did she introduce it to you? Did she know that her parents were swingers when she was growing up and as a result just found this to be the norm?

My wife and I never hid the fact from our children that we shared our bed with our friends. Nor did the other 2 couples that we have been swinging with for a long time. Today all of our children are adults and most of them, but not all, enjoy sharing their partners with their close friends.

I think that the openness of my family's attitude concerning sex and sexuality has resulted in 3 generations of family members that are considerably more open minded than the general population is.

 

[Hoss]

Yes they are very much aware both of me being bisexual and my active sex life.

A very revealing moment was when I preparing to marry (she's an ex now). Her family was all there when he came in.:redface:. It was her older brother with whom I'd had a short term (less than a year) relationship. He was 100% gay and I'd actually ended it, he still had feelings which he made clear at the reception after he had too many drinks. Since then I've alwas been up front about my beng bisexual & my activities.

 

[v32bone]

my family doesn't know I am bi and are very outspokenly homophobic...they do know that I am polyamorous with three partners and know that one is a lesbian and the other two married. My mom says, "I don't understand you kids these days"...I'm 54! LOL

I think my brother has informed them that I am kinky as well because he's the black sheep of the family and always trying to lower my stature in their eyes so he can get away with more shit. Gotta love family dynamics! hahaha...

Since I don't have a male partner I don't feel the compulsion to fill them in on the fact that I like a bit of cock now and then. None of their business until it affects my ability to be social around them. Save the drama for arguments about politics at this point.

 

[Not_Punny]

No one in my family knows about multiple male partners. Heck no. And nothing even NEAR my house -- I still have minor children, and I'm not bringing ANYTHING into my home that isn't apple pie with vanilla ice cream.