Does your gf/wife enjoy giving you blowjobs?

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My gf loves doing it, and she's one of the few women I've been with that can make me cum from oral alone. In fact, she pushes me back insists that she's "being selfish."
 

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gf gives head or no longer gf. most women love it, i've only ever had one girl who didn't go down pretty easy, and i was careful to keep it from getting messy for her, fucked her, and finished that night off. ive messed around with alot of girls but never had any problem with any of them not really wanting my cock in between either set of lips- actually, saying that, ive had alot more women ready and willing to suck me off that to let me fuck them from every angle i could dream up.
 

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EVERYONE is entitled to setting his/her own limits. If those limits aren't compatible you either accept that or move along.

Exactly. I think there was a lot of good advice here to try and get her comfortable but bottom line is she has do do what she is ok with.

That said, I love giving head. I remember when I first did it, I didn't like it much, but then I didn't like sex much either...over time, not only did I get good at it, but I love doing it...I couldn't wait to put my mouth on my current boyfriend! I like giving him pleasure and I like the control I feel. I like getting as much as giving. I'm surprised though I have friends who don't like one or the other or both. :eek: I just feel bad for them...really missing out. I do not like being forced though...I like the control of it, and I really don't want to gag and have a bad incident...
 
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My gf loves trying (even tho sometimes it gives her a bit of jaw lock). personally i don't get much out of it except the sensation of teeth , but I'm glad she enjoys making the effort.
 

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The last girl I was with fell in love with my cock. She would suck it anytime I wanted and would "make love" to it with her mouth. My current girlfriend enjoys sucking on me and it feels great when she does. One thing I found is that I never ask a girl to suck on me. I think that if they don't feel like they "have to" they are more than willing to give it their all.

(BTW: My current girlfriend's ex used to make her suck him and swallow his cum, that's why I let her decide when she wants to do it so she doesn't feel forced)

 

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My wife says that she enjoys sucking my penis and likes my cumming in her mouth. Sometimes she says that it doesn't taste as good as other times.
 

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I LOVE giving head... but I hate it when a guy holds onto my head and forces it down or when they hover over me and fuck my mouth. When I'm giving head I like for the guy to lay back and let me be in charge.... I give amazing head if you'll just let me do it. I can understand why she hates giving head though.... I would hate it too if I had been forced to do it!!

Couldn't agree more. If im with a guy and he starts skull fucking me then i will purposely make sure its bad. Im giving the blow job and i want to do it for my guy and i want to be in control while he just enjoys

But like everything there are going to be times we dont want to do it but do, most guys can tell between when its a chore or when its something we are enjoying.
 

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She has tried to turn things around and blame it on me because....since I dont like hairy pussies...and since my gf wont shave for me....that I wont like eating her pussy while we have 69

So she's in the same position as you. You won't give her head. It doesn't matter that if she shaved you say you would, the truth is that you're doing the same thing to her that she's doing to you. Maybe you deserve each other. You're both being unnecessarily controlling and prudish.

yea from early on in our relationship I have found out she does not really like to shave her pussy. she has given me numerous reasons for this. I always figured I can get her eventually to do the things I like sexually but it seems not to be working for me.

That is rarely true and going into a relationship (or staying in one) thinking that isn't smart. When you meet someone you have to take them as they are. If you do anything else, you're setting yourself up for a very unhappy relationship.

It sounds like both of you have control issues. Maybe you not liking her hairy pussy feels to her like you don't completely accept her, so she holds back BJs. No matter what, it's not healthy, and if this kind of thing is in other areas of you relationship, it'll never work, at least not healthily.
 

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Just my experience.........from a female (ol married lady here) point of view,
Many many moons ago giving head was not on my list of favorite things to do to hubby. Hubby even made a statement that he enjoyed it very much and could not imagine going with out and well I didn't, peroid. My complaint was the taste, very strong ammonia like. Gag!!
After his "neutering" :wink:, the "taste" was gone. Now he can't keep me away from it!! He wishes he had done it much earlier in life. Now I can worship his nice thick mushroom head cock, the way it is intended to be.

My advice, is talk to your partner and ask what the issue(s), concerns or fears they have. Bad experiences tend to leave one with issues & emotional baggage. Is it the taste, they don't like to be "forced" aka head hold, maybe they don't know the "art of a blow job" or they just have a fear(s) that need to be addressed. Talk to her and ask her what her thoughts are, then go from there. Sometimes when trust is gained the sky is the limit!!

PS guys, a little "manscaping" does wonders too. who wants to stop and <find> the stray public hair!! kind of ruins the momentum for me!! :eek:
also, it did not affect his cum shots either. he could give some porn stars a run for their $$ :tongue:
 

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She loves to do it. I've never had to ask. She also loves playing with my foreskin. It makes her happy as well as me.
 

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I was wondering how many guys out there get blow jobs from either your wife or gf? Is it something that she does only to please you or does she do it because she enjoys it as well?

For the women: you can also answer this question.

My current gf, who I have been w/ for a long time (2.5 years and counting) hates giving bjs and I dont know what to do. She says she does not enjoy giving them and a lot she says has to do w/ the fact that her ex bf forced her head down on his penis while she was giving him head. Any advice?

My gf very mistakenly described giving me BJs as a "chore". Kinda ruined my enjoyment getting them from her for more than a couple of minutes...
 

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I love giving head! Love every part of it, especially the control factor and just doing something the guy loves.

I think a primary reason some women do not enjoy giving head is they are unsure of their skill level. If more women practiced and just tried it with a few different partners, they would find it really isn't that big of a deal. It isn't dirty. You won't choke. He doesn't care if you gag. And if the taste bothers you, tell him to wash it first... trust me, he'll practically run to the bathroom and do it, haha.

To the OP, it seems like you both share issues with oral. My advice is to take a shower as a couple, touch a bit while getting clean, then try oral together. That means you eat her hairy box and she attempts to get you to finish with oral. I would make this a regular thing until you both are comfortable with it.
 

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DW really gets into it. I had a friend some years ago whom I fooled around with who was much more experienced, but DW's skill & enthusiasm blows her away, no pun intended.

If she doesn't thoroughly enjoying it, she's putting on one hell of an act.
 

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my wife doesn't really care for oral sex, giving or receiving. she did like oral sex once in awhile, but we were younger then. I was quite good at it, she said and willingly would go down if she wanted me to. I almost pick up a vibe from her now that she thinks oral sex is for gays, not straight like we are. my wife will reluctantly give head, but I should be recently showered, she will not swallow, she sucks on me until I'm gonna blow, but doesn't want any on her, we have to be laying down in bed together.

I never have grabbed her head and rammed her head/mouth down on my cock, I know better, she would not like that. I usually lay back enjoy the moment, lightly rub her back, butt. sometimes, she will stop and jump on board, but not often. she stop sometimes and admires my cock. tells me it's perfect, and recently told me, she loves my cock.

Sometimes I feel like she is just "doing her duty". she has had this attitude since the southern Baptist( I think) came out and said a wife was to accomodate her man whenever, it was her duty. BTW, we're not Baptist, no denomination, but we are Christian. we have our own faith.
 

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This is my experience. I am 42 years old and I love to suck cock. But it hasn't always been like that. I don't know if it was the conservative Christian way I was raised (Southern Baptist)...... or just my stubborn perception..... but I felt like giving a guy a blowjob was derogitory (degrading)to a woman. I remember talking to people in college and I was told that if I wouldn't give a man a blow job that there would be no way I could keep a man. I didn't believe this to be true. And I still do not believe this to be true.

Anyways I remember when I met and before I married my husband..... I was upfront with him about my feelings.... I told him that if he wanted oral sex he might want to go look somewhere else. He married me anyways.

Then somewhere in my late 30's I don't know what happened......I like became a sex addict. (I think it is hormones) My sexuality was released! I probably drive my husband nuts because I can't keep my hands off of him. Or my lips. I think my husband is happy..... but it is funny, he still says he prefers my hand jobs..... he likes for me to talk dirty and when I have my mouth full I can't talk dirty. ( I would prefer to not talk....but that is just me)

There are a lot of good advice on these posts......communicating and talking with your girlfriend can't hurt. It does sound like there are some control or power struggles going on.
 

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fortunately she loves it.
but I know a guy (I swear it's true), married twice, whose two wives never gave him head.
at fortysomething, after those happy marriages, he received his
first 'pompino', italian for bj, from a colleague.

a woman, I think.
 

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fortunately she loves it.
but I know a guy (I swear it's true), married twice, whose two wives never gave him head.
at fortysomething, after those happy marriages, he received his
first 'pompino', italian for bj, from a colleague.

a woman, I think.


Shows how times changes, i was blown before I was jerked off (not counting myself of course)