does your husband/bf/partner know you're on this site?

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Well, you have to admit, this one does have a sort of "specific" content. Avoiding the name sounds lawyer-like.


That's the bottom line I guess, but not pointing out the topic here doesn't sound much different or more open than just not telling him (to me at least). You might as well just not say anything than to maybe give the impression that it's just a standard sex forum.

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the women who are regulars here use it as a regular adult forum, so why the hell does it matter what other people use it as? just because you'd assume we were ogling cock all day, doesn't mean we even glance.
 

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Originally Posted by Crunch_Hardtack:
Well, you have to admit, this one does have a sort of "specific" content. Avoiding the name sounds lawyer-like.

You might as well just not say anything than to maybe give the impression that it's just a standard sex forum.

someone once told me i choose my words more carefully than a lawyer, and i was actually flattered.

i don't care what others think, but if i WANTED to keep this place to myself i would do so. i would just call it yet another forum i visit if i even had to refer to it. i might say it has adult content, i might not. i don't look at it as a non-standard sex forum. i look at it as a message board with adult content and it's none of the majority of people's business.

but i do not keep stuff from my current squeeze. he is the uber cool.

would i keep it from a different squeeze? i don't know. i guess i haven't had to seriously ponder that question. if i wasn't with the squeeze i have now, i would be single and buying stock in sex toy companies. the question would then be moot.
 
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Well, you have to admit, this one does have a sort of "specific" content. Avoiding the name sounds lawyer-like.


That's the bottom line I guess, but not pointing out the topic here doesn't sound much different or more open than just not telling him (to me at least). You might as well just not say anything than to maybe give the impression that it's just a standard sex forum.

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So are you saying that she should tell him it's a normal sex forum or that he'll assume that if she doesn't tell him anything?

I'm a little confused.

In regards to rtg, avoiding mentioning the name is a little strange. If someone told me they were a member of some sex site but refused to tell me anything about it then I'd be a little suspicious, thinking that they were hiding something they were embarrassed about like fantasies or something. I'd probably be a little hurt they didn't feel comfortable enough to share it with me.

That's just me though, your bf might not give a shit.
 
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In regards to rtg, avoiding mentioning the name is a little strange. If someone told me they were a member of some sex site but refused to tell me anything about it then I'd be a little suspicious, thinking that they were hiding something they were embarrassed about like fantasies or something. I'd probably be a little hurt they didn't feel comfortable enough to share it with me.

That's just me though, your bf might not give a shit.
if i ask my guy what he's up to and he replies that he's off down the pub with his mates, i don't think it's weird that he's not specifying which pub.

but that's just me.
 

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if i ask my guy what he's up to and he replies that he's off down the pub with his mates, i don't think it's weird that he's not specifying which pub.

but that's just me.


That's a bad example.
A better one would be if the two of you frequently went down the pub for a drink together and then your guy casually mentioned he's been going to another pub to drink with other people for a while then refused to tell you anything at all about it.
 

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That's a bad example.
A better one would be if the two of you frequently went down the pub for a drink together and then your guy casually mentioned he's been going to another pub to drink with other people for a while then refused to tell you anything at all about it.
why would i have asked :confused:

also, that is a terrible example.
 
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i am still trying to figure out why i would need to inform my partner of any intorwebz activity *blink* LPSG, or not.

i'm of age.
not breaking any laws *regional, domestic, international*
online/in person i wouldn't cross a line my partner wouldn't be uncomfortable with.
i don't trash talk my own personal slice of wonderful.

and, yeah, he knows about LPSG cuz i am always asking him peen questions.
ML: babe, do you have any odd masturbation habits?
Boy: *blink* i hate LPSG

ML: sugarbuns, do you chub ya wang to get looks on the bus.
Boy: that's it... *hands me hoodie* no more computer tonight

ML: hmmmm *ponder face* hmm Boy, ya busy?
Boy: *concerned face* maybe... why?
ML: was kinda gonna ask a favor
Boy: like take out the garbage, get you a drink favor.
ML: *tries to look innocent* kinda :smile:
Boy: this is about my penis, isn't it?
ML: okay.. yeah.. but i only need it for a couple of minutes. it'll be fun.
Boy: no, no ML.. you may not borrow my penis for research experiences
ML: *grumble* ya can't stop me from taken notes while we're having sex
Boy: yes i can *perv grin*
ML: *forgets to take notes*
 

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i am still trying to figure out why i would need to inform my partner of any intorwebz activity *blink* LPSG, or not

interweb activity should be a standard box on your nightly report outlining all your activities of the day for your husband/male significant other to approve, of course. You should be filling it out right after the nightly blowjob and right before you go upstairs to read Redbook in bed while he drinks a tumbler of the hard stuff in his red leather chair before the fireplace.

Duh.
 

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heterosexuality requires too much paperwork.

*flips through sample report* according to this i am seriously behind on googling blowjob tips and pot roast recipes. :frown:
 

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He knows I post here. Its easier with my ipad to quickly look at mail, message boards. I follow a few and one I've owned for 10 years. He was standing behind me when I saw the message I first replied to here.
It was that 'second vagina'. The belief that they were entering the cervix and into the uterus. ...the second vagina....! I couldn't believe it. It was my husband that told me to take a breath, and re-read my post before I sent it. I really couldn't believe it and it must have been obvious.

As much as the ipad makes it easier to read mail and message boards, I can barely see the print without my reading glasses.
They were my 40th birthday gift. (from mother nature...of course) =(
 
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heterosexuality requires too much paperwork.

*flips through sample report* according to this i am seriously behind on googling blowjob tips and pot roast recipes. :frown:

I have an awesome pot roast recipe if you want it.. :biggrin1:

Sir knows I'm on here. He doesn't care what I do online, lol
 
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Yup, she sure does. She likes to perve as well, and read some of the threads.
 

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She views most online forums / social networking as at best a necessary evil and at worst a waste of time. I mentioned LPSG to her and her response was little more than a sigh of indifference. Maybe even disinterest.