I wonder how many guys' wives know or found out that they masturbate without her. If so, has this created any problems? When asked maybe 20 years ago, I admitted that I did a couple of times a week. (Actually it's more like 5 or 6 times since we no longer have sex--but that's another story). She also admitted masturbating on occassion then. I can't imagine that's still true but she nearly walked in on me recently when I was finishing up and was very upset that I had the door locked where I both work out and wank it. I said I had an erection while changing and didn't want to embarress her.