Do your wives also enjoy toys? Mine has a few dildos and a vibrator or two she likes to play with. How about your wife?
My wife won't even try a wand because she read an article in cosmo about getting addicted to them and only being able to cum using them. Her girlfriends have even told her that's only true in extreme cases and they use theirs and can still cum without using a toy.
I've given up trying to spice things up with a toy.
I'm debating on getting my wife a wand to see if she'd want to try it. The staff at the hustler store was super helpful with their suggestions.I bought my wife a wand. Best thing I ever did sexually. She won't use it on herself I have to, but thats ok it has given her some of her best orgasums.
My wife likes to use her vibrator on her clit while I fuck her from behind. Gets her cumming and shaking in no time.