Ha, had a chat with a member on here and I think he was spot on. There are three types of women:
1) women who like sex
2) women who like cock
3) women who love cum.
It's a sliding scale, with 1 being the tamest and type 3's being the wildest.
I've been with girls who LOVE sucking cock. I've been with girls who could take it or leave it. In my opinion it's kind of an approach to sex. Some girls are into the romance & touching and feeling and that aspect. Some are more "guy-like" and enjoy hot, sweaty, wild fun.
Kind of like porn - most men look at it, many women don't at all. For some women a cock is something to ride, not really an attraction in itself. I've even had girls tell me my cock was great looking, but they didn't necessarily jump on it when they saw it all the time.
Not married. But, the news from friends who are married - yes, tamer sex and fewer bjs. I think most women in l.t. situations just aren't that motivated for bjs & new things that much. Some are for sure, but most are happy with good, standard sex and an orgasm.