I wonder if anyone else has this same concern. First, I live in a third-world state in the US. Come to think of it, the South is a third-world region! When I travel to cities with visible gay populations I am thrilled to see that so many of the guys are these muscle boys! Increasingly, they have tattoos, piercings, shaved heads and a "tough" demeanor. They and guys in gay ads often look like Skin Heads to me. I remember the days when Skin Heads would go to the gay areas and assault the guys that did not know they were gay haters. Anyone have any suggestions. I get a lot of attention from the appealing guys here but my employer would fire me quickly if I propositioned a customer. And, if I am wrong I don't want to deal with the possible response, whether or not it causes problems with work. I hate gay bars. I may go once or twice per year, but, again, in friendly cities.