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I'm seeing a girl and we've been having an on/off thing for a few years, and yet she's never once been able to take me doggystyle. In fact, I never ever get to do doggystyle. I've probably had less than 10 minutes' worth in my life. I try to be very gentle, but as soon as I start moving they all say they feel like I'm poking at their stomachs or some other internal organ or strange feminine cavity. It's not a matter of speed, it's any movement it seems. I've tried to go inch by inch, slowly, then begin moving - nope. I've tried telling her to arch her back like a cat (even though it's unsexy as hell). It felt like I was trying to penetrate a cat.

Is there any kind of magic trick? Teach me!
 

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From my own experience some girls love doggie and some girls just do it to please the guy. I had a gf once tell me she felt it was demeaning - yea - ended that relationship, lol.

Depends on angle and whether or not the girls like how it hits her. Also, deepness can be an issue for some. Personally, I love doggie and tapping out the bottom on a girl who can appreciate it.
 

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I just took a look at the photos you've posted and aside from my being circumcised, our cocks are very, very, similar in shape and size, so this might help.

First, I never even start to have intercourse without a lot of foreplay. Getting your partner to ache for your cock instead of worrying about aching from it helps alot. One thing that drives my current partner crazy, is when I rub my cockhead back and forth between her vagina and clitoris until she can't take it anymore--by that time she's both psychologically receptive to a good fucking, as well as literally frothing from arousal.

Second, when you first enter her, do it very gradually, letting her savor the sensation of becoming more and more filled with you moving deeper into her body. Don't ever just try and ram it inside. If you do that, she'll both tighten up physically as well as be fixated on the idea that this is going to be all about your pleasure and wind up causing her pain. Sort of a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Third, let her tent. Almost all women "tent" after they're FULLY aroused. Whern this happens, the rcesses of their vaginas expand, sometimes greatly, but usually enough to allow much, much, deeper penetration without getting to the point of pain. Yes, when your dick is past 8", like yours and mine are, no amount of tenting will help with some girls, but I've been amazed at how much cock a woman's body can handle when you take the time and care to help her accomodate your member--even in the "doggy" position.

Fourth, watch out for her cervix. Doggy style can create some extreme variations in how your bodies line up, due to differences in leg lengths and how wide she spreads her kness apart on the bed. Done right, you'll slide up behind her cervix into the little cul-de-sac which makes up the end of her vaginal canal--done poorly and you'll score a direct hit on her cervix, at which point she'll jump and tell you "I can't do it this way, let me get on top." Guarantted. Of course talk is great for making sure that you don't poke her cervix head on. As you work your way into her, ask her "how does this feel?" And yes, LISTEN to what she says. Most likely it will lead to you feeling your balls rubbing up against her clit.

Last, until you and her are ABSOLUTELY SURE that she can take your entire length all the way inside of her in that position, don't even think of pounding away like a madman. That means fucking for a few minutes with full strokes (pubic bone fully extended towards hers) at a slow, measured, pace first. And if she's loving it, you then can let loose. My experience is that when you approach it like this, and she can take it that way, it becomes a favorite position for both partners.

Hope that helps.
 
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I love doggy style my fav. But my ex did not she always said something about a tilted cevics. I am only just under 7 on a good day girth not bad 6.5" at the base tapers 5 3/4" behind the head. Most don't believe the length most of the time only 6 3/4" but the girth makes it look more like 5. Don't know maybe my Ex just did not like it. But she complained of pain even with tons of forplay. And my dick is not that long.
 
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i feel ur pain, wife loves doggy but i cant go all the way in. stabbing the cervix def ruins the mood so i have to be carteful.
 

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I'm seeing a girl and we've been having an on/off thing for a few years, and yet she's never once been able to take me doggystyle. In fact, I never ever get to do doggystyle. I've probably had less than 10 minutes' worth in my life. I try to be very gentle, but as soon as I start moving they all say they feel like I'm poking at their stomachs or some other internal organ or strange feminine cavity. It's not a matter of speed, it's any movement it seems. I've tried to go inch by inch, slowly, then begin moving - nope. I've tried telling her to arch her back like a cat (even though it's unsexy as hell). It felt like I was trying to penetrate a cat.

And just what, pray tell, is so wrong about penetrating a cat? They're the best pussy around.
 

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Says the man with a dog in his picture.

I didn't think about tenting. To me it matters how far away the girl is from menstruation. At midway, the vagina much more able to accomodate large sizes. But tenting makes sense and means I don't have to plan fucking on a monthly basis :D.


But having had a big penis ever since I started sleeping with girls, I'm very familiar with the idea of needing a fair amount of foreplay. In fact it's happened often that I got "lost in foreplay" for many dates with girls, probably both because I really enjoy foreplay and because the girl was a bit apprehensive. Rubbing the girl's clit with my cockhead is also one of my 'classic' moves (I feel like George Costanza saying this).

Is the girl spreading her legs an important factor? I have to say I've never even thought about it. I just think about the angle my penis goes in and how arched she is.
 

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First, I never even start to have intercourse without a lot of foreplay. Getting your partner to ache for your cock instead of worrying about aching from it helps a lot. One thing that drives my current partner crazy, is when I rub my cockhead back and forth between her vagina and clitoris until she can't take it anymore--by that time she's both psychologically receptive to a good fucking, as well as literally frothing from arousal.

Second, when you first enter her, do it very gradually, letting her savor the sensation of becoming more and more filled with you moving deeper into her body. Don't ever just try and ram it inside. If you do that, she'll both tighten up physically as well as be fixated on the idea that this is going to be all about your pleasure and wind up causing her pain. Sort of a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Third, let her tent. Almost all women "tent" after they're FULLY aroused. When this happens, the recesses of their vaginas expand, sometimes greatly, but usually enough to allow much, much, deeper penetration without getting to the point of pain. Yes, when your dick is past 8", like yours and mine are, no amount of tenting will help with some girls, but I've been amazed at how much cock a woman's body can handle when you take the time and care to help her accommodate your member--even in the "doggy" position.

Fourth, watch out for her cervix. Doggy style can create some extreme variations in how your bodies line up, due to differences in leg lengths and how wide she spreads her knees apart on the bed. Done right, you'll slide up behind her cervix into the little cul-de-sac which makes up the end of her vaginal canal--done poorly and you'll score a direct hit on her cervix, at which point she'll jump and tell you "I can't do it this way, let me get on top." Guaranteed. Of course talk is great for making sure that you don't poke her cervix head on. As you work your way into her, ask her "how does this feel?" And yes, LISTEN to what she says. Most likely it will lead to you feeling your balls rubbing up against her clit.

Couldn't agree more.....

When shes all worked up, you might want to kneel and sit back on your feet; allow her to back on to you. While shes trying to back on to you, let her know how hot her pussy looks wrapped around your cock. With some luck, it might lead to some photos or erotic movies for you both to enjoy.