I see many comments on various posts from guys here about how they would love to suck that cock, etc. I have experienced both women and a few men who seem to have really enjoyed sucking my cock without any stimulation to themselves. Now, if I watch porn it can make me horny but there is no physical pleasure unless I am stimulating myself. So, I get that mentally there might be some excitement in a person doing oral on me (or anyone). But, just sucking another persons cock, exactly what physical pleasure do you derive for yourself unless at some point you are going to self-stimulate? When I am going down on a woman the truth is the act itself isn't pleasurable to me but again the mental aspect that I am soon going to be fucking that pussy can turn me on. So, again, my question is for those who love doing oral but where there won't be anything more than that for themselves?
Doing oral- what is the pleasure?
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I get extremely turned on while I'm servicing. Physically and mentally. Getting a masculine man off gets me off. Plus I can replay it in my head long after the act.
It's an oral fixation/pleasure sucking thing some have. Many good reads on it. When u really love it a hard warm cock really satisfies. It's as much pleasure to suckle and tongue as it is to be on the receiving end for a true cocksucker. We both benefit and equally love the reward.
I mean, I just love having a cock in my mouth... If you're lucky, you'll get mutual reciprocation. Plus, I love to swallow a warm, hot, load.
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I love performing oral, it really gets my gears going, but it needs to be part of a larger sexual encounter for me.
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For me, I love pleasing. Giving him satisfaction. Feeling his body tighten and strain, breathing hard, and moaning loud.
I’ve always been in to both male and female. It’s not sex unless it’s starts with an oral rev up session, no reciprocation required.
I really love oral, especially females.
A lot to do with pleasing the other person. Getting myself off isn’t usually in my mind.
I really love oral, especially females.
A lot to do with pleasing the other person. Getting myself off isn’t usually in my mind.
I've had a lifelong oral fixation, plus I love pleasing my partner and particularly I love making them cum
SAME. The more they shake and moan the better!
The fact that you don't actually enjoy giving oral to a woman is a hint as to why you don't immediately understand the turn-on. By way of example, my wife and I *really* love oral. She gets soaking wet while going down on me, and both of us could easily orgasm while giving. But this obviously isn't shared by everyone. A past lover of mine loved to give me head...it's sometimes all she wanted to do, but she hated it if I went down on her. Another woman wouldn't ever give me head but enjoyed when I went down on her. Plenty of fish in the sea, all unique...
It’s always a goal of mine to get the lady off first with oral before I even attempt it with sex.
my goals anyway.It’s always a goal of mine to get the lady off first with oral before I even attempt it with sex.
I used to have that goal as well, and did that with my first wife and past lovers, but my wife is "one and done", so if we are in the mood for a longer session, we *both* hold off on our orgasms until we sort out exactly what we want. Either of us are quite capable of getting the other off in minutes, but we might exchange giving head, then PIV, then go back to oral for one or both of us. I always ask if she wants anything in particular, and the answer is often, "uhhuh....anything,"
Every time. Being unselfish with a giving person has great results. And it's not as if we expect marathons every time...we aren't spring chickens. But the fact that we both enjoy each other and support each other's fetishes and kinks means we can just be and do what we want. We typically only have sex onceor twice a week, but it's usually good enough that I either have no interest in masturbating or *have* to masturbate because the memory is such a turn-on.Sounds like some fun times
We're good.
For me, her very warm cunt flaps in my mouth, like slabs of excellent prime meat (that did not sound right at all). Yum! Especially IF a yummy pussy! My taste buds take a minor break if it's not quite perfect.
Her appreciative moans/groans/writhes make me go more to find the right... to pop her off and make me happy.
A warm/very & soft outside covering with a hard cock inside? Oh man! Same as above.
I do love to make people smile so that MAY have a bearing for me. I ain't no sub neither. I am me.
Carry on.
Damn good question!
Her appreciative moans/groans/writhes make me go more to find the right... to pop her off and make me happy.
A warm/very & soft outside covering with a hard cock inside? Oh man! Same as above.
I do love to make people smile so that MAY have a bearing for me. I ain't no sub neither. I am me.
Carry on.Damn good question!
I get so much pleasure from sucking cock, I’m usually hard when sucking but I don’t necessarily have to cum to enjoy a cock in my mouth. From the minute he pushed it against my lips (if there is pre cum even better) and into mouth, onto my tongue and down my throat, I love feeling the hardness all around my mouth, if he is really turned on and his cock is throbbing I love to feel his cock pulse, throb in my mouth, I will just hold him there a few before sucking some more. I love the thick one who make my jaw hurt too! If he likes mouth fucking, it make me so horny feeling him control the sliding in and out, feeling his balls on my chin, and as he gets closer and closer, I love hearing him breathe harder and harder, moan and and maon, makes me even hornier! And when he shoots feeling that hard cock shoot a hot load into my mouth and feeling his cock pulse and that main vein pump his load. Pure heaven! And if he is a heavy cummerbund and shooter. Bliss.
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