Doing oral- what is the pleasure?

[bkmuscledad]

I get so much pleasure from sucking cock, I’m usually hard when sucking but I don’t necessarily have to cum to enjoy a cock in my mouth. From the minute he pushed it against my lips (if there is pre cum even better) and into mouth, onto my tongue and down my throat, I love feeling the hardness all around my mouth, if he is really turned on and his cock is throbbing I love to feel his cock pulse, throb in my mouth, I will just hold him there a few before sucking some more. I love the thick one who make my jaw hurt too! If he likes mouth fucking, it make me so horny feeling him control the sliding in and out, feeling his balls on my chin, and as he gets closer and closer, I love hearing him breathe harder and harder, moan and and maon, makes me even hornier! And when he shoots feeling that hard cock shoot a hot load into my mouth and feeling his cock pulse and that main vein pump his load. Pure heaven! And if he is a heavy cummerbund and shooter. Bliss.

Sounds like you're channeling Keats, Erpap. I love the detailed joy you express from this. Ode on a Great Cock

 

[kamahori]

Speaking from the other side of the blow job, of course a lot of the pleasure is physical, but not all. And I believe the emotional and intellectual stimulation I get has common roots to that experienced by the cocksucker. A man's relationship with his cock, the way he likes it worked, how exactly it reacts to tongue pressure on the underside of the shaft, how it swells in the moment before ejaculation, the taste of his semen - these are some of the top's most personal and intimate details. By virtue of giving oral service, an attentive bottom gets to know all this from up close. A regular cocksucker would get to know me better than I know myself, in some respects. It thrills me to share so much of myself, even through a simple relatively casual sex encounter - in many ways it's more personal than fucking. I can see that this knowledge can bring a lot of satisfaction for the cocksucker.

 

[Notaes]

I see many comments on various posts from guys here about how they would love to suck that cock, etc. I have experienced both women and a few men who seem to have really enjoyed sucking my cock without any stimulation to themselves. Now, if I watch porn it can make me horny but there is no physical pleasure unless I am stimulating myself. So, I get that mentally there might be some excitement in a person doing oral on me (or anyone). But, just sucking another persons cock, exactly what physical pleasure do you derive for yourself unless at some point you are going to self-stimulate? When I am going down on a woman the truth is the act itself isn't pleasurable to me but again the mental aspect that I am soon going to be fucking that pussy can turn me on. So, again, my question is for those who love doing oral but where there won't be anything more than that for themselves?

I love eating my wifes pussy. It makes my cock harder than ever. I enjoy fucking her more when I eat her pussy.

 

[trulybig]

Notaes and few other responses seem to miss the point. Of course, turning on your partner is a turn-on. But, you add I enjoy fucking her more. Again, that means stimulation either through intercourse, or as I said self stimulation. My post was for those who do neither and simply do the act with nothing in return.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Notaes and few other responses seem to miss the point. Of course, turning on your partner is a turn-on. But, you add I enjoy fucking her more. Again, that means stimulation either through intercourse, or as I said self stimulation. My post was for those who do neither and simply do the act with nothing in return.

You misread. He said he enjoys fucking her more WHEN he eats her pussy. Not more THAN eating her pussy. The oral sex lead up greatly enhances the entire sexual experience. I understand the narrow focus you're attempting, but discussions will go in other directions sometimes...nothing wrong with that.

As far as only giving with no expectation of reciprocation, I don't see how that matters. I will happily give my wife anything, with no further expectations. If she asks me for PV sex, or gives me a handjob, or goes down on me AFTER I have given her an orgasm orally, how has that changed the enjoyment I received by giving to her? There is no quid pro quo. I love oral sex. Period.

 

[slowsucknj]

Trulybig,
Isn't your forum question aimed at the opinion from an individual giving a blowjob (to completion)??...
With a reference toward experiences on performing oral on a woman.

 

[thick_cock_306]

I've often wondered myself why I enjoy sucking dick so much now. There's something amazing about seeing a hard cock just sticking out. Sliding it in and out of my mouth just gets me so horny.
Finally, the idea of bringing it to orgasm and getting those shots of cum is the best ending.

Not the best explanation from me...just how I feel about it.

 

[trulybig]

slowsucknj; yes. Again, I wonder in watching some videos where the wife or girlfriend sucks off the husband to completion but has no stimulation for herself, the pleasure of that for her. Or, even with my wife is she does me but no other act occurs. Then, given this forum where more men are going to be on here where guy to guy oral occurs, the same questions. Too many have responded it makes the sexual act more pleasurable. Again, of course if you are talking about sex beyond oral for one partner doing and one partner receiving. I am not asking about the receiving partner, I am not asking does it make intercourse or anal or whatever might follow better. I am saying there is no follow. Simply one person doing oral without any stimulation before, during, or after for themselves.

Obviously there is the mental aspect, most sex involves some form of mental stimulation. But, is that enough and every time? erpap had a reasonable explanation.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

slowsucknj; yes. Again, I wonder in watching some videos where the wife or girlfriend sucks off the husband to completion but has no stimulation for herself, the pleasure of that for her. Or, even with my wife is she does me but no other act occurs. Then, given this forum where more men are going to be on here where guy to guy oral occurs, the same questions. Too many have responded it makes the sexual act more pleasurable. Again, of course if you are talking about sex beyond oral for one partner doing and one partner receiving. I am not asking about the receiving partner, I am not asking does it make intercourse or anal or whatever might follow better. I am saying there is no follow. Simply one person doing oral without any stimulation before, during, or after for themselves.

Obviously there is the mental aspect, most sex involves some form of mental stimulation. But, is that enough and every time? erpap had a reasonable explanation.

If you are turned on by performing oral sex, nothing more is needed. Whether anything else happens afterwards doesn't change this. Enough and every time? Sure. I would be very happy to go down on my wife any time. I could cum while doing it, easily, every time.

The oral sex act doesn't turn you on. You seem to enjoy PIV sex. That turns you on. Is that enough and every time? If so, then it's just like that. If it isn't enough every single time, it's also just like that...there's no reason something has to be enough every single time to be a turn on by itself. That would put it in the realm of obsession. And that makes for a boring sex partner.

 

[simbablk]

It's really mental for me. I REALLY enjoy eating pussy - and many times I'll eat a woman's pussy and not get anything in return or fuck her. Sometimes I just want to make a woman cum - that's it. If she wants to fuck, then we'll fuck. But when I'm just in the mood to eat pussy, I typically leave my clothes on. And when I'm done, I can bask in the afterglow as I can still smell her sweet aroma on my face!

 

[Brensta]

Speaking from the other side of the blow job, of course a lot of the pleasure is physical, but not all. And I believe the emotional and intellectual stimulation I get has common roots to that experienced by the cocksucker. A man's relationship with his cock, the way he likes it worked, how exactly it reacts to tongue pressure on the underside of the shaft, how it swells in the moment before ejaculation, the taste of his semen - these are some of the top's most personal and intimate details. By virtue of giving oral service, an attentive bottom gets to know all this from up close. A regular cocksucker would get to know me better than I know myself, in some respects. It thrills me to share so much of myself, even through a simple relatively casual sex encounter - in many ways it's more personal than fucking. I can see that this knowledge can bring a lot of satisfaction for the cocksucker.

Perfectly said. I'll add in my perspective of wanting to serve a superior male. As a bottom and a bit of a sub, my pleasure comes from seeing an alpha Male in pleasure, caused from my service. To know I'm the source of that pleasure gives me my own power

 

[vjduvall]

It's an oral fixation/pleasure sucking thing some have. Many good reads on it. When u really love it a hard warm cock really satisfies. It's as much pleasure to suckle and tongue as it is to be on the receiving end for a true cocksucker. We both benefit and equally love the reward.

My wife says that she likes "suckling" on my small cock -- it relaxes her she says. She very often just takes my cock in her mouth and "suckles" on it for a long long time. After a while I cum in her mouth and she swallows my small load, but she often just keeps suckling even if I am totally emptied out and soft and won't get hard again... Not sure I understand it, but I sure love it.

 

[brandon38]

I mean, I just love having a cock in my mouth... If you're lucky, you'll get mutual reciprocation. Plus, I love to swallow a warm, hot, load.

That sound hot to me bro .

 

[uncut7in]

I like to give and receive oral sex equally. I like a decent size cock, preferably uncut. Love to roll a guy's foreskin back with my lips, and run the tip of my tongue over and around his helmet. Then I lick up and down his shaft, then take about half the cock in my mouth. I start a rhythmic sucking, taking more and more until I'm deep throating. Don't often swallow as I usually switch to fucking his ass.

 

[kingdong9]

I love being sucked, and I will admit I am not that much of a cock sucker. BUT, when a lovely sized and shaped dick is available then it is going in my mouth. To lick the glands, the head, inside the foreskin (if got any - not fussed!), tease the frenulum, nibble the frenulum, feel the whole thing pulsate, and to taste that first dribble of precum is just mind blowing, and when you bring it to the edge of explosion, and you feel the vibrations shooting through it and onto your tongue, and then feel the explosion, then you can well and truly say you love sucking cock (at times).

 

[Scott8361]

I had a guy who liked to have his cock sucked through a glory hole but did not want me messing with myself at all. I can say I still enjoyed doing it immensely!

There is something very satisfying about getting a dick to go from cold, soft, droopy flesh to a blood engorged, hard, raging erection! To see it so big and feel its firmness in my hand and mouth is incredible. And then to have it spew its hot cum onto my tongue is like nothing else!

It leaves me wanting more, but the memory will be used to get myself off at a later time!

 

[sunny89]

For me, there’s nothing more pleasurable than seeing the guy I’m sucking loving my skills, feeling amazing by being pleasured by my mouth. I can truly control his cock and make him moan for pleasure whenever I swirl my tongue and slide him in my throat!! So rewarding for me, plus I love the taste of cum

 

[deleted1074483]

I like it giving and recieving for slightly different reasons but its about trust intimacy giving pleasure and being blown by a guy whether they're good or bad i love seeing a guy go down on me and take my dick in his mouth its just fantastic

 

[SamMann75]

Notaes and few other responses seem to miss the point. Of course, turning on your partner is a turn-on. But, you add I enjoy fucking her more. Again, that means stimulation either through intercourse, or as I said self stimulation. My post was for those who do neither and simply do the act with nothing in return.

Several times a week I go down on my wife and I get a hard throbbing hard on and I know she's not going to let me have sex or cum. I'm still hard and aroused from this morning when I woke up, got under the covers and woke my wife up with my tongue between her thighs and gave her several orgasms, knowing that once she was finished i would have to get in the shower and go to work without any release.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I can only speak for myself. I have always enjoyed being a pleaser. I may not get off at that particular moment but the memory of me sucking a nice hard cock will always be available for me to remember later. I also enjoy the fact that with sucking cock I am in control. I am also willing to relinquish control if he likes to face fuck. Nothing gets me going more than taking a flaccid cock in my mouth and feeling it engorge.