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woohoo *high five* boys rule!! We don't need no girlz!
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We should cunningly turn this thread into a boy outpost, deep in enemy territory.
Don't say, "Would it be ok if maybe I spanked you?" while sitting in the living room. Walk up to her while shopping for groceries, grab her ass, and whisper in her ear, "I'm gonna slap your ass* red when I get you home for making me so hard" She'll either laugh, and say. "No you won't!" or she'll laugh and then say... "mmmmmm".
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That point about her being a repressed Catholic schoolgirl is interesting, as my fiance comes from the opposite approach. She's not repressed in the least and is very open about her sexuality, so for her it's not about evading moral responsibility. I think it's actually primarily about feeling protected (as she's had some bad experiences in life), and wanting me to project strength in order to get that feeling.
We should cunningly turn this thread into a boy outpost, deep in enemy territory.
I was a virgin until I was 24 too and never did anything but kiss a few times before that age.
When it comes to soft domination, there really is no need to ask, you just do, and receive feedback later. The worst that can happen is she'll laugh at you, and in my experience, the domination gets rougher over time. The best time to talk about it is afterwards, not before. It's just one of those nice things about sex where afterward the couple talks about what they liked and did not like. More than likely she does not want to discuss safe words and pain. You can talk before in abstracts, throw out hints, and even mention what you want to do/will do, and she will respond either positively or negatively. Don't say, "Would it be ok if maybe I spanked you?" while sitting in the living room. Walk up to her while shopping for groceries, grab her ass, and whisper in her ear, "I'm gonna slap your ass* red when I get you home for making me so hard" She'll either laugh, and say. "No you won't!" or she'll laugh and then say... "mmmmmm".
Hi, have her call you master or daddy, call her dirty names, make her beg for your cock, and tease her with orgasm control. Hope you like. LipsSo my girl tells me a few days ago that she wants me to be more dominating in bed....
I'm pretty sure I'm capable of this but I've never actually done it much and am looking where to start and maybe if some of you had some tips. A few of the things she's mentioned that she'd like is light hair pulling and some light bondage.
The only reason I'm looking for some advice is just to try to figure out how far is "too far"? I've actually asked her stuff like that but I don't think she's fully figured out what she wants yet, which makes it pretty tough to figure out on your own! Being raised a good Catholic girl has made her pretty repressed when it comes to talking about it.
One thing I do know is that she loves a big cock......well, at least she loves it when I talk dirty about my cock when I'm fucking her.
Anyways, if any of you have some good advice or some more questions.....let me know!
good god, you turn me on!I think there's lots of girls who like it the other way around, too. I know a few. :smile:
I like tying TheBF up, but it's really not a dominance/submission thing. I mean, it's not like I make him call me Mistress or I make him say or do anything. I mostly just worship his cock while he's tied down.
I'd like to see if I can ;-)Just aren't looking in the right places :wink: Depends if you could handle it or not :biggrin1: