Don't be mad, just be respectful.

[D_Hadley Throbottle]

i'm glad i don't have the problem of being inundated with PMs from all the horny women on this site! or flooding my pictures with comments... man, that'd be horrible!

 

[Not_Punny]

Hey, like, don't post photos if you don't want any comments or PMs. This is a SEX site, for goodness sake.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

It is my personal choice to be offended by someone referring to me as girl. It's nothing to make into an issue it's just that I'm not a dog or a child so I don't appreciate it. This isn't meant to sound angry but it's how I feel about the issue and I am sure that when I am deemed older or more mature I definitely won't be wishing someone would refer to me as girl especially as an African American.(This is not a race issue either)

Like you said, its your personal choice to be offended.
That has nothing to do with the intentions of the person who says it.


That's resentment and upset that you are creating in your own life for no reason whatsoever...
And if you expect everyone to tiptoe around your unreasonable sensitivity... well, then you are in for an awful lot of offense that you are entirely the cause of.

And might I point out that to say, in the same sentence, that you won't be wishing someone to refer to you as a 'girl' as an African American... and that its NOT a race issue... is just pure hypocrisy.

If your racial heritage factors at all into when and why you are offended at what, then it absolutely IS a race issue... for you.

It is really a sad and pointless sorrow to choose to find offense in something no one intends to be offensive.

Marcus Aurelius wrote:
" If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your own judgment of it; and This you have the power to Change at any moment."

 

[Guy-jin]

Hey, like, don't post photos if you don't want any comments or PMs. This is a SEX site, for goodness sake.

Nice ass. :tongue:

 

[sizequeenNY]

I get nice messages from people, men and women that are cool. Yeah there is the occasional I want to come on your tits but then I see their pics and sometimes don't mind. This is not the site to have your panties in a bunch

 

[Pitbull]

No every guy is rude.
Funny how people think because it is the internet that they can do things and say things that are totally unacceptable everywhere else.

I know it is LPSG
I know sex is frequently a topic here.
But that is no excuse for rude behavior.

However, if I see a woman in real life wearing something with a low plunging neckline my introduction is not "Nice Tits!"
Now I know some guys do not follow my rules.
I know some will say a woman dressed as such is looking for attention and maybe welcomes such comments.

Not the way a gentleman treats a lady.
Not the way a real man treats a woman.

Not being gay, I am not sure if it is acceptable for a man to approach a man in such a manner.
I will say, I do not find the very few PM's I have gotten offensive (although they were not really explicit.) And before you flood my Message Inbox - I really am 100% straight and totally not interested.
...And if anyone PM's me and the message is "Nice Tits!" ...

Starting out with "Hello" is always proper and correct.
Starting out by suggesting a sex act to a total stranger is what is expected from lower life forms