Don't Believe We Live In A Rape Culture?

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I had sex with this dude a couple of times. I found out he had a warrant (shooting a firearm while intoxicated) out for his arrest so I cut him loose and told him why. This is his 7th attempt to contact me on various social media under multiple names. I'm on my way to the courthouse to file an emergency protective order. I keep my enemies close and my guns even closer!

It's a danger to even own a hole.

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He thinks that there is nothing he did that caused your relationship to end. He’a a misogynist. Any slight towards him from a woman he immediately lashes out at them. Anything goes with them. They have such a weak view of their own masculinity that any perceived affront by a woman leads to that sick behavior. He would never threaten a man (he may through messaging phone calls, anything that he could attack someone from a distance). Be careful and take no pity on him. Any perceived weakness on your part e.g pity etc is the worse thing. Please be safe.
 

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you take the good with the bad... since you are sleeping around with various men, you're gonna hit a few bad ones in the pool. there's no getting away from it. some will walk away quietly, and some will throw hissy fits. same goes for the men sleeping with many women too. there's plenty of psycho-crazy-ladies out there for sure!

his reaction is his problem, not yours, however it may spill over into your life so be safe. maybe run a public record search on these men before you hit the sack with them. don't they provide access to public records where you reside?
 

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you take the good with the bad... since you are sleeping around with various men, you're gonna hit a few bad ones in the pool. there's no getting away from it. some will walk away quietly, and some will throw hissy fits. same goes for the men sleeping with many women too. there's plenty of psycho-crazy-ladies out there for sure!

his reaction is his problem, not yours, however it may spill over into your life so be safe. maybe run a public record search on these men before you hit the sack with them. don't they provide access to public records where you reside?

I could sleep with only 1 man for the rest of my life and him still be psycho. This has nothing to do with how many dicks I ride. Also, this isnt a platform to bitch about women being psycho too. Take your judgemental bullshit elsewhere. This man could rape me brutally and/or kill me. Telling me women can be psycho doesnt change shit that I'm dealing with. This is a WOMAN'S ISSUE right here. Just like how dudes take my thread about what it was like being with a man with foreskin and turn into a debate about mutilation. Why do you men love to do this? Is it a glitch in your matrix?
 
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Stay safe, Maddie <3

For the asshole popping up trying to blame women and blame being ethically promiscuous... I've been in a monogamous relationship for years, and still have had random assholes pop up saying similar threatening/violent stuff, when I tell them I'm monogamous/not interested.
 

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Stay safe, Maddie <3

For the asshole popping up trying to blame women and blame being ethically promiscuous... I've been in a monogamous relationship for years, and still have had random assholes pop up saying similar threatening/violent stuff, when I tell them I'm monogamous/not interested.

Gotta take the good with the bad? No the fuck I dont. I'll throw the bad in a wood chipper and mulch my garden with it.
 

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I was going to say, you know myself and Rem are pretty willing to lend a firearm if a friend's safety seem at risk...

Raised by a Vietnam vet daddy who was trained as a Sniper. Look at that posture! 20190704_200950.jpg


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You do whatever you need to do to defend yourself. You take care of yourself
 
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I wish I could say I was surprised, but I’m not. Too many men resort to threats of violence and rape when rejected. Even if they don’t threaten it themselves, they wish it upon the woman.

Aggression is easy. Calling us “twats” is easy. So much easier than being a real human being.
 

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I could sleep with only 1 man for the rest of my life and him still be psycho. This has nothing to do with how many dicks I ride. Also, this isnt a platform to bitch about women being psycho too. Take your judgemental bullshit elsewhere. This man could rape me brutally and/or kill me. Telling me women can be psycho doesnt change shit that I'm dealing with. This is a WOMAN'S ISSUE right here. Just like how dudes take my thread about what it was like being with a man with foreskin and turn into a debate about mutilation. Why do you men love to do this? Is it a glitch in your matrix?

no glitch here luv, and i'm certainly not bitching either. i simply stated facts and you got upset all on your own. i'm not passing any judgement at all. you filled in the missing blanks on your own and assumed as much about my post.

you clearly stated in a prior thread that you're sleeping around. i never said it was a bad thing. i only brought up what you said. the more people you interact with, the more chances of you running into a bad one. it's probability.
 

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no glitch here luv, and i'm certainly not bitching either. i simply stated facts and you got upset all on your own. i'm not passing any judgement at all. you filled in the missing blanks on your own and assumed as much about my post.

you clearly stated in a prior thread that you're sleeping around. i never said it was a bad thing. i only brought up what you said. the more people you interact with, the more chances of you running into a bad one. it's probability.

Take your thinly-veiled judgement and phrases from the 1950s and kindly shove them up your ass.
 

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no glitch here luv, and i'm certainly not bitching either. i simply stated facts and you got upset all on your own. i'm not passing any judgement at all. you filled in the missing blanks on your own and assumed as much about my post.

you clearly stated in a prior thread that you're sleeping around. i never said it was a bad thing. i only brought up what you said. the more people you interact with, the more chances of you running into a bad one. it's probability.

You are a misogynist asshole because you told me to accept this. You told me it was because I *sleep around* and you called me *luv* . All very obvious red flags of a man who sees himself as superior to women in general. A man who dismisses Male behavior. A man more concerned about throwing out there he must be equal in victimhood because after all women can be crazy too. And a man who will call a woman a pet name to belittle her to further show his sense of self worth above her. He also manages to say sleeping around like he's her daddy. Yep, red flags.
 

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You are a misogynist asshole because you told me to accept this. You told me it was because I *sleep around* and you called me *luv* . All very obvious red flags of a man who sees himself as superior to women in general. A man who dismisses Male behavior. A man more concerned about throwing out there he must be equal in victimhood because after all women can be crazy too. And a man who will call a woman a pet name to belittle her to further show his sense of self worth above her. He also manages to say sleeping around like he's her daddy. Yep, red flags.

i rest my case... thank you for proving my points. i don't know what happened to you but any further discussion will lead nowhere for either of us. again, i'm pointing out facts and you're getting upset.
 
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no glitch here luv, and i'm certainly not bitching either. i simply stated facts and you got upset all on your own. i'm not passing any judgement at all. you filled in the missing blanks on your own and assumed as much about my post.

you clearly stated in a prior thread that you're sleeping around. i never said it was a bad thing. i only brought up what you said. the more people you interact with, the more chances of you running into a bad one. it's probability.
Listen, luv. We don't have to take the good with the bad. We don't have to accept that we might get a bit raped sometimes. The world is changing and what you need to worry about is that people with sick and offensive views in line with your own could, in future, possibly become the victims of hatred and violence.
Do you live your life taking the good with the bad, accepting that some women might be decent enough, but others have rape and murder on their agenda? I'd start worrying if I were you.