dont know what to do

[chilldude111]

Idk wat to do, i'm 19 years old and about 260 lbs, latley i dont wake up with an erection (some days i do) and it seems that it is hard for me to get hard if im just by myself. then 2 weeks ago im with my gf and sadly i must say im still a virgin, we were fooling around and I could not get the flag to totally salute! it was at full length but not full frimness. can anyone please tell me your input

 

[marleyisalegend]

it could be anxiety which can certainly lead to penile disfunction though i doubt thats common for people your age. if nothing else i'd suggest talking to a doctor or specialist because it could be nothing, just mental and in your head or it could be something serious. better safe than sorry

 

[chilldude111]

its weird tho, like i can look at porn and get hard and get off i just want a great boner with my gf, is there ne pills or anything i dont need a perscription for that would help?

 

[marleyisalegend]

NO NO NO NO NO we need to stop solving all our problems with pills. i used to work in a pharmacy and can vouch firsthand that a majority of the products on the shelf aren't even approved by the FDA, there's a reason for that. i'd do some research on the net about natural and herbal aphrodisiacs, the only one i've heard about someone using personally is goatweed. i'd do some research on it and DEFINITELY search for side-effects and studies information about any pills you consider taking though, again i'd not recommend resorting to that, sometimes it could just be something in your head thats getting in the way. sometimes when i'm about to have sex i get nervous and my body starts reacting, literally. my stomach gets tight and cramps up. there's nothing physically wrong its just a mental thing. again, there's no better source than a physician or specialist

 

[EdWoody]

Marley is correct.

and apoo? please stop writing in text-speak. It's annoying and makes it difficult to read, and is generally frowned upon round here. Other than that, welcome to the board.