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The "ask a straight man" section is full with the questions like "will you/do you.....get sucked/licked/or fuck.....*some condition/situations*.....by a guy/with a guy". Honestly, even being a gay, I get bored, irked with this kind of questions. Don't you guys get bore?
What surprise me more, you guys still respond/reply to those post. I marely would have just ignored them. So do you guys actually enjoy to respond to those questions repeatedly? Do you guys actually 'feel happy' to entertain those even asked 1000 times?

Secondly, i rarely found questions in "ask a gay man" segment ,by a straight guy. I'm not considering question asked by a bisexual guy.
So do you guys actually have nothing to know about a gay man? Is it you already know, or may be not my cup of tea/not interested kind of things?


*N.B- english is not my language.so perdon me if any part of post means wrong/offending.
 

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You're right about basically gay questions being asked in the straight guys section. Speaking only for myself, I am totally fine with someone being gay, but I haven't had a question I wanted to ask.
 

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Yes the question are repetitive and can paint some gay men in extremely bad light. It is one of the reasons that I don't use this site as much any more.

Many of the question should be common sense so the fact that they get asked over and over again makes it even worse. And for me there isn't much questions I'd have for a gay man that I couldn't figure out in my own. We are all men so aside from sexually experiences we are all pretty much the same there's nothing I'd need to ask. And when it comes to sex I'm not interested in men so there's no need to ask a question about that.

If I were to ask a question it would be why are gay men here obsessed with straight men when there are perfectly willing bi/gay/pan out there.
 
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The "ask a straight man" section is full with the questions like "will you/do you.....get sucked/licked/or fuck.....*some condition/situations*.....by a guy/with a guy". Honestly, even being a gay, I get bored, irked with this kind of questions. Don't you guys get bore?
What surprise me more, you guys still respond/reply to those post. I marely would have just ignored them. So do you guys actually enjoy to respond to those questions repeatedly? Do you guys actually 'feel happy' to entertain those even asked 1000 times?

Secondly, i rarely found questions in "ask a gay man" segment ,by a straight guy. I'm not considering question asked by a bisexual guy.
So do you guys actually have nothing to know about a gay man? Is it you already know, or may be not my cup of tea/not interested kind of things?

Having been on LPSG since 2004, yes I am sick of the same old questions that are effectively trying to get straight men to admit to non-straight behavior. It is not happening! The "Ask a Woman" section has a few Pinned posts that explain what NOT to ask, as the morons were driving women off this site by their continuous bad behavior. I really, really, really wish the Ask a Straight Man section had the equivalent pinned post at the top.

I don't think I've ever looked at the Ask a Gay Man section, as I have zero interest in Gay sex.

If I were to ask a question it would be why are gay men here obsessed with straight men when there are perfectly willing bi/gay/pan out there.
This.
 

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What surprise me more, you guys still respond/reply to those post. I marely would have just ignored them. So do you guys actually enjoy to respond to those questions repeatedly? Do you guys actually 'feel happy' to entertain those even asked 1000 times?
Its the hope that the next post like that will be the last. Been said before but not sure if they mean well and just don't understand or they're trolling. The whole deal where "actually any straight man is a little gay/bi" is really really weird, I'd rather tell them No, we're not and hope they finally understand.

I really, really, really wish the Ask a Straight Man section had the equivalent pinned post at the top
I 2nd this motion

'm gay myself and I still don't know what it is about straight guys that I'm attractive too. It's purely sexual.
You're attracted to people who don't want to fuck you? does that not seem a bit weird
Most straight men are most likely to say these men in question are bisexual, but they've have repeatedly said I don't understand I've never wanted to sleep with another guy before.
I think its fair to say if a guy wants to have sex with another guy then they are bi or gay, regardless of what they say. If a man has consensual sex with another man and calls himself straight then hes not wanting to be out about his sexuality, which is perfectly ok, hes just a closeted gay/bi dude. Then it means the 100% straight guys have to deal with shit like this.
 

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Its the hope that the next post like that will be the last. Been said before but not sure if they mean well and just don't understand or they're trolling. The whole deal where "actually any straight man is a little gay/bi" is really really weird, I'd rather tell them No, we're not and hope they finally understand.


I 2nd this motion


You're attracted to people who don't want to fuck you? does that not seem a bit weird

I think its fair to say if a guy wants to have sex with another guy then they are bi or gay, regardless of what they say. If a man has consensual sex with another man and calls himself straight then hes not wanting to be out about his sexuality, which is perfectly ok, hes just a closeted gay/bi dude. Then it means the 100% straight guys have to deal with shit like this.
I would go as far as saying that 100% straight is a very small amount of people. I mean of course I know some 100% straight people most guys say a blowjob is a blowjob no matter who gives it. To be fair on your response, no 100% straight have to deal with any shit from me. I'll only go there if the guy is signalling for it to happen. I'd say there are fair more opened minded people out there. Weird about wanting to he fucked by people who don't want to fuck us?. I mean I'm sure there are plenty of woman you'd like to "fuck" but wouldn't want to fuck you too lol I mean some might even be lesbian, so really what I should ask you is why do you find lesbians hot? And please don't respond with "oh I dont"
 
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no 100% straight have to deal with any shit from me
good, wish everyone was like that

why do you find lesbians hot?
Its a good point but I don't want to fuck them solely because they're a lesbian. I don't think a woman being a lesiban adds or subtracts anything to her attractiveness. It sounded like you were more attracted to a guy because he is straight, and fair enough you said you can't really explain why. It gets weird when people try and say everyone is a bit gay or blowjobs/etc don't count. Glad you realize some are 100% straight.
 

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I would go as far as saying that 100% straight is a very small amount of people.
Sorry, but you couldn't be more wrong. Looking at multiple studies, the amount of people who identify as 100 heterosexual ranges from 93% to 97% That doesn't discount or diminish anyone else's sexuality in any way! Even being generous and allowing the "1 in 10" figure passed around as being accurate, that still means 90% are straight.
 

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What I have found out, they are not after straight men. They are after masculine men.
Now, no one has a lebel on their face like straight or gay or bisexual. So 'they might be...' goes in the mind. 'I might have a chance ' story starts growing. After knowing, it's hard to strike down the story.
Any handsome guy, most among us will comment like 'I think he is bit bisexual'. But 'what made you think '? Doesnot have a proper answer.
But ya, it's not about straight guys. They are not after all straight men. It's about manliness that i am sure. A huge part in our community run away from effiminate guys. Don't even want to talk with them.
 

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Sorry, but you couldn't be more wrong. Looking at multiple studies, the amount of people who identify as 100 heterosexual ranges from 93% to 97% That doesn't discount or diminish anyone else's sexuality in any way! Even being generous and allowing the "1 in 10" figure passed around as being accurate, that still means 90% are straight.
It's true.
Even science & many other field of study says, nothing is 100%
 

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I actually ignore the AASM forum from time to time. If I am in a good mood, I might come back here to answer some gay dudes.

It is impressive the amount of gay men trying to test straight men. It is in every nook and corner of this website. AAM, AAGM, AABM, "Show off", "Erotic stories", etc... Gay, gay, gay, gay. But if you have pacience to wait a few days, you might find something actually interesting among all this gayness.
 

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I actually do think that the vast majority of men are either 100% straight (the vast majority of the vast majority) or 100% gay. It's society that gets in the way, and makes things confusing for people and skews the labels. If there were no societal pressure, I think things would be clearer on this front, and this reality would be obvious.

I am talking about men and only men here. I think female sexual orientation is more fluid. I don't have my reasons for why that's so, other than whatever biological patterns exist, which go back to evolution and who knows what.

Most men who identify as "curious" and bisexual are, if they are fully honest with themselves, gay. This simply means that their masturbatory fantasies are exclusively about men. Obviously these same men are also able to have sex with women, because of a combination of the ferocity of the sex drive coupled with simultaneous fantasies of men, but that doesn't make them just "curious" or bisexual.

Also because of the male sex drive, it's possible for straight men to have sex with men (obviously), when there's a benefit for them (cash for porn, a nice BJ when no women available, etc).

I'm not prepared to say that true male bisexuality doesn't exist. But I am prepared to say that I've never personally encountered anyone male who is truly bisexual.

That's my controversial opinion based on life experience.
 
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The "ask a straight man" section is full with the questions like "will you/do you.....get sucked/licked/or fuck.....*some condition/situations*.....by a guy/with a guy". Honestly, even being a gay, I get bored, irked with this kind of questions. Don't you guys get bore?
What surprise me more, you guys still respond/reply to those post. I marely would have just ignored them. So do you guys actually enjoy to respond to those questions repeatedly? Do you guys actually 'feel happy' to entertain those even asked 1000 times?

Secondly, i rarely found questions in "ask a gay man" segment ,by a straight guy. I'm not considering question asked by a bisexual guy.
So do you guys actually have nothing to know about a gay man? Is it you already know, or may be not my cup of tea/not interested kind of things?


*N.B- english is not my language.so perdon me if any part of post means wrong/offending.
I do I requested before a sticky post to guide people to avoid doing the same question like the ones on aaw. I second the proposal.
Somehow this stubbornness of people hitting straight made me feel what woman might be dealing with all their lives, I have emphaty but it gave me perspective too. We are men after all, different tastes similar flaws.
Stating the obvious since you are not of my interest It’s only logical that I don’t come up with a question. But anyway by your questions I learn about you more than I ever possibly imagined to ask, lots of un useful therms I will never hear on real life.
I made a question basically asking the obsession of some gay men and why they fail to attract each other, luckily most of them get realistic goals and a noisy minotity is what we suffer.
When the op is respectful and his emotion feels real I will write to help and heal.
But if he is been a dick disrespectful or bought all the porn fantasies, I will have a little pleasure dismantling his poor logic.
I assume there is no closet on internet you want to be a winged unicorn just be one. No one is watching no social pressure no prist nor judge.
Clothing issues is what I came here for originally ages ago now if you can find threads becoming pictures galleries there without any help or comments, ignore button will create here a meeting lunge for people pretending be straight just to contact men for sex, making the real straight that they supposingly love move away.
 

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I've found, especially in dealing with demographics that have an interest in straight men, that our silence or refusal to answer questions is often opportunistically translated as some sort of compliance, shame, or phobia. That's at least the initial reason I'll offer insight when questioned.
Secondarily I respect the interest, because frankly the most telling about the psychology of the members here, is the utter lack of any sort of interest into the opinions or perspective of straight men from straight women; which I don't really find all that surprising, as unfortunate as that is.
 
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It's true.
Even science & many other field of study says, nothing is 100%
I tend to agree with you on this.
@lapdog2001 Years ago when I was in my younger years, I've heard through media (TV, book and others) of the 10% group, in other words, they described those are gay and 90% of population are straight. But that seems to fade away now, as many guys identify as bisexual.
 

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Each person who asks the same question, yet again, for the hundredth time thinks he is asking it for the first time. Personally, I have become simi numb to the questions. Sadly, this numbness, over the years, has caused me to participate less and less
 

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I tend to agree with you on this.
@lapdog2001 Years ago when I was in my younger years, I've heard through media (TV, book and others) of the 10% group, in other words, they described those are gay and 90% of population are straight. But that seems to fade away now, as many guys identify as bisexual.
I defer to scientific studies where that 10% number was probably way too high. Even today, I sincerely doubt that more than 10% of the population is anything but heterosexual. Based on my circle of family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances, etc. the number of "non-straight" is less than 10%.
My circle includes people who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, etc.
 

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Sorry, but you couldn't be more wrong. Looking at multiple studies, the amount of people who identify as 100 heterosexual ranges from 93% to 97% That doesn't discount or diminish anyone else's sexuality in any way! Even being generous and allowing the "1 in 10" figure passed around as being accurate, that still means 90% are straight.
Ahhh I understand what you are saying but I think alot of men feel the need hide certain parts of their sexuality. Even in an experiment, I just can't bring myself to go off science study. I'm more of I'll believe when I see it type of person. I mean we thought the earth was flat at one point and now the earth is round. I'm not saying it's flat or round, I've never been to space so I couldn't tell which is which. But completely understand your opinion