Has anyone tried using a "donut?" I've heard of these and thought it might help my "problem."
I'm not gigantic, but at a little over 8" long and better than 6" around, I've sometimes come into fitment issues. As you all know, women, and their pussies, come in all sizes. My current lady is tall (5'10") but smaller than most "down there". Not only do I bottom out before getting all the way inside (yes, even after "tenting"), but the outside of her pussy is quite small as well and my girth pulls her clit (and everything in between) right against my dick on the upstroke.
OK, I know your asking "what's the problem?" Well because I have to focus on measuring/placing my depth when we fuck, and I can't get that amazing sensation of bumping pubic bones, it takes me a heck of a long time to cum: anywhere between 30 minutes and well over an hour. Sometimes I just don't cum, although I stay very hard and enjoy the sensations, as well as the intimacy. If that wasn't bad enough, our marathon fuck sessions coupled with my girth/her smallness often leads to her getting urinary tract infections. Showering together right before helps, but even then sometimes she gets an infection from my rubbing up against her urethra for an hour or so. Besides having to shower means very little spontenaity.
So, back to "donuts"--the rubber things that you put around the bottom of your dick. Has anybody tried them? If so, how does it feel? Do they come in sizes--I've learned long ago that "one size does not fit all." And last, if you're still with me, where is a good place to buy them--the local sex shop doesn't carry them.
Or, if you have been in the same situation (on either end), and have found a better solution, please chime in.
Thanks for any help,
At.your.cervix
I'm not gigantic, but at a little over 8" long and better than 6" around, I've sometimes come into fitment issues. As you all know, women, and their pussies, come in all sizes. My current lady is tall (5'10") but smaller than most "down there". Not only do I bottom out before getting all the way inside (yes, even after "tenting"), but the outside of her pussy is quite small as well and my girth pulls her clit (and everything in between) right against my dick on the upstroke.
OK, I know your asking "what's the problem?" Well because I have to focus on measuring/placing my depth when we fuck, and I can't get that amazing sensation of bumping pubic bones, it takes me a heck of a long time to cum: anywhere between 30 minutes and well over an hour. Sometimes I just don't cum, although I stay very hard and enjoy the sensations, as well as the intimacy. If that wasn't bad enough, our marathon fuck sessions coupled with my girth/her smallness often leads to her getting urinary tract infections. Showering together right before helps, but even then sometimes she gets an infection from my rubbing up against her urethra for an hour or so. Besides having to shower means very little spontenaity.
So, back to "donuts"--the rubber things that you put around the bottom of your dick. Has anybody tried them? If so, how does it feel? Do they come in sizes--I've learned long ago that "one size does not fit all." And last, if you're still with me, where is a good place to buy them--the local sex shop doesn't carry them.
Or, if you have been in the same situation (on either end), and have found a better solution, please chime in.
Thanks for any help,
At.your.cervix