For the past 6 months my boyfriend whom I am crazy about has been topping me, something I am not used to, being he is the first top I have dated. I have dated a good amount of guys and all were total bottoms. Everytime we make love he of course tops me and I lay on my back/stomach/head wincing in pain. There have been times where we just stop because it gets to be too uncomfortable for me. I hate doing this to him because he loves to cum inside of me. We have been trying various techniques to loosen me up and none have seem to be making this tolerable. My question to LPSG is, Am I just not meant to be a bottom? Is it worth keep on trying the techniques already in place including: Dildos, fingers, gallons of lube, butt plugs, alchol? I really am in love with this man so leaving him is not even a last restort in regards to this issue. I just want him to enjoy being inside of me without me going through pain. Thank you for any and all comments.