To introduce myself, I'm 21, Bi, average-sized Latino guy in the San Bernardino area, So CAL. I was wondering how many people live 'double lifes', you know, people think you're straight, when you're either gay or bi. This is an issue for me cuz it's hard to experiment on the bi side cuz of fear of being tagged as gay. How do you guys cope with this? How do you hook-up with guys if you don't want people who know you to know this about you? I mean I've only had two gay encounters with the same guy, and one str8 with a girl. I definitely want to experiment on both sides, although I'm sure I wanna live a 'str8' life, you know get married and have kids. May be I want to live a little before I settle as mostly str8! Also, are 100% str8 guys willing to JO with another guy, without threatening their 'machoness'?