ruffboy
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wow, this is some of the best posting i've seen here (to be fair, i've only been looking for not too long, but i never expected people to be THIS helpful, sweet!)
i empathize a LOT with not big, not small's plight. was thinking about it driving back from some meetings just now, and this goes for society in general on LOTS of topics but i get so tired of the either/or line of thinking. you either HAVE to be this or you HAVE to be that and davidjh7's comments are massively on the button here, i do have some idea of who i am sexually and its not 100% straight and not 100% gay. why isn't there a "% bi" to choose from on this site? does saying i'm 80% straight and 20% gay mean i'm 100%? why am i even concerned with the labels in the first place? lvsxy808 i totally get your point there, owning who you are, whatever that is, but there are some of us out here who are still not sure what we are cause it changes all the time for one thing.
i don't know, i'm rambling here i think, but at least its cool to know there are a few level headed folks here who are able to give some great points of view, some great advice from lives lived and most of all some great support for those of us on journeys that are a little rocky at the moment.
i empathize a LOT with not big, not small's plight. was thinking about it driving back from some meetings just now, and this goes for society in general on LOTS of topics but i get so tired of the either/or line of thinking. you either HAVE to be this or you HAVE to be that and davidjh7's comments are massively on the button here, i do have some idea of who i am sexually and its not 100% straight and not 100% gay. why isn't there a "% bi" to choose from on this site? does saying i'm 80% straight and 20% gay mean i'm 100%? why am i even concerned with the labels in the first place? lvsxy808 i totally get your point there, owning who you are, whatever that is, but there are some of us out here who are still not sure what we are cause it changes all the time for one thing.
i don't know, i'm rambling here i think, but at least its cool to know there are a few level headed folks here who are able to give some great points of view, some great advice from lives lived and most of all some great support for those of us on journeys that are a little rocky at the moment.