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I said that you're a sexist pig because of your emotional lack of intelligence, and your inconsiderate and inaccurate views of women. I don't know where you get these perceptions from, but I have to ask- this world you're living in, are there rides? Rollercoasters? Ferris Wheels? I'm guessing that you've had such issues with women in the past, and I'm sorry if that's the case. But women I know "don't get bored when you ask them to hang out." If they like something or someone, they want to enjoy it, or that person- just like anyone else! If women tend to "get bored when you ask them to hang out," then maybe it should occur to you that you're common factor. And maybe, just possibly, you're the problem.

"If someone shows you who they are, believe them." Dr. Maya Angelou

If I was a woman, and the perception that you give here is truly who you are in your day to day life, I would ask to either lie to me so that I can enjoy your dick before I got bored with it, or ask you to become someone else. Women like confidence, not arrogance. Women like honesty, not what you think they want to see. And women like maturity and responsibility, not someone who is quick to push the blame elsewhere. It sounds like you need to step up your game, playboy. And if you really have these feelings about women, then maybe you should keep your dick to yourself.


sheesh where to begin?

so you're saying im a sexist b/c you disagree with me? instead of calling me a sexist, why don't you ask me about specific things that i said to get a better understanding instead of ranting about a person you don't even know making assumptions about my love life while sprinkling famous quotes to make yourself look all intellectual

for example, why should i believe what you say about women getting bored? according to your percentage thing, you are into guys, so why should i take relationship advice from a person who probably has never looked at a women in that way before? (let me guess im a homophobe now right?) its pretty obvious that women get bored when you cling to them, when you are too reliable and when you hang on their every word, most women like a man who takes charge, its not attractive being her human puppy dog ... (im i an animalist now?)

and what "feelings" do you speak of that is so bad that? and you may believe me, you may not, you don't know me, for all you know i could be denzel washington or a 4'11" 500 pound ugly slob with no experience with women or anywhere in between, but i am very satisfied with my sex life and my ability to pick up women ... that is why i try to help people out .. i wouldnt try and give advice to people on a subject i know nothing about (which it seems like you are doing)

:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:
 

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Wow the message is strangely gone from my phone and I NEVER delete messages. I only remember the phrase "Thanks for everything" and "I don't know what I'm doing next week but I will keep you posted." It's really bugging me that I don't have the message but I know for sure it took up 4 full lines and she said she had a good time too. But as I typed the phrase "Thanks for everything" my heart kinda sunk.... that's not a good sign, that's like a farewell kind of thing to say to someone. That and the kiss on the cheek probably say where this relationship is - friends. Just friends.

And about the facebook thing, I always forget about that. I don't treat facebook like that. I'm on maybe once a week and if you are not my friend in the real world I will not accept a facebook friend request from you. But that's one of my flaws, I tend to automatically think that others know the same things and feel the same way about things as me... you know, reasonably. By now I should know that the majority of people do not have much reasoning.

But yeah, someone else said something about avoiding confrontation, that was probably it. Although snubbing someone is more likely to create confrontation, I suppose she didn't want to let me down right away. Just don't understand why she would tell me to text her when I got home. That was added information on her part, it's not like if she didn't say that it would be a rejection. That was the kicker I guess.

yeah "thanks for everything" seems like shes ending something and what she is basically doing is having you as a back up ... right now you're like the 12 man on the bench in her mind, you were nice and everything, but there was no "spark" for her ... you made her have control to the point where its one of those "we'll call you" type of deal ... don't expect a call until its like 3 months from now and her main guy blows her off or breaks up with her, then she will call you as a "rebound guy"/"sloppy seconds guy"/(worst of all)"lean on shoulder while i cry about much of a dick my main guy is, guy" .. i recommend you blow her off when she does try to contact you b/c right now she probably thinks she can have you whenever and wherever she wants (which is completely different than being truly interested in you)

and yeah man, something about facebook makes people want to virtually whore themselves and be "friends" with anyone who "likes" a picture, but thats a completely different topic ... she is pretty much teasing you and will do just enough to keep you lingering around to have you thinking "oh maybe she does like me" ... if this happens it will happen in a few weeks or so b/c now she knows you are a little hurt by the initial rejection, but she thinks that whenever she does get in contact with you, you will be very eager and literally jump at the oppratunity to do something with her

and again, she was doing just enough to keep you interested in her, she was playing you, once you learn how to keep others interested in you, than you will be the one picking and choosing when and where you want to associate with people on your time, and this doesn't just apply to women, this applies to ALL forms of relationships (friends, business, etc)

at the end of the day you just have think that you are a top notch person, b/c once you believe that you are the best, you will only accept quality from the people and things you are dealing with, and if a person does reject you, it won't be a big deal because you know its a bigger loss for them than it is for you
 

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sheesh where to begin?

so you're saying im a sexist b/c you disagree with me? instead of calling me a sexist, why don't you ask me about specific things that i said to get a better understanding instead of ranting about a person you don't even know making assumptions about my love life while sprinkling famous quotes to make yourself look all intellectual

for example, why should i believe what you say about women getting bored? according to your percentage thing, you are into guys, so why should i take relationship advice from a person who probably has never looked at a women in that way before? (let me guess im a homophobe now right?) its pretty obvious that women get bored when you cling to them, when you are too reliable and when you hang on their every word, most women like a man who takes charge, its not attractive being her human puppy dog ... (im i an animalist now?)

and what "feelings" do you speak of that is so bad that? and you may believe me, you may not, you don't know me, for all you know i could be denzel washington or a 4'11" 500 pound ugly slob with no experience with women or anywhere in between, but i am very satisfied with my sex life and my ability to pick up women ... that is why i try to help people out .. i wouldnt try and give advice to people on a subject i know nothing about (which it seems like you are doing)

:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:


oOoOo Buuuuuurn!

Just so you know, I identify myself as gay, but I'm bisexual. And poo on you for relying on someone's gay to straight ratio in their profile(because yes! We all know that every 100% straight male on lpsg is truly 100% straight! What the fuck was I thinking?). I've slept with and dated women. As I've stated before in your thread regarding "how many is too many"- I'm just more favorable towards men when it comes to dating and sex; I enjoy male bonding and rough sex that would probably bruise and batter most women. I mean, not many women prefer to be slammed against a wall by a 6'2, 320 pound black man; or are strong enough to slam me against a wall for that matter. But I digress. I didn't call you sexist because I disagree with you. I called you a sexist because of the way you generalize women; the same way you'd probably call someone a racist if they said that all black people were on welfare or they're lazy.

And what's to ask? You make your points quite clear, and you prove time and time again that there's no modifying them. So why the hell should I ask? I don't ask because I don't really give a shit to know. You're a sexy light-skinned thing, but you are NO DENZEL!!! How dare you even make that comparison, boo boo. I think not...

And do I think you're homophobic? Absolutely not- you like getting attention from men. I realize that the two aren't synonymous, but to have a true homophobe who likes getting attention from the same sex regarding their genitals is quite rare. I'm very fortunate to be who I am and have the insight that I do. Women tend to trust gay men and let us into their secret world. It's with us that women discuss life, friends, family, love, and sex. I've had my fair share of women- my digits aren't in the double digits as of yet, but I've learned what I need to know. And I know enough to respect women.

So there you have it! I quoted Dr. Angelou not to seem like an intellectual, but because I felt that it was relevant, so why not? Besides, I already know that I'm very intelligent.


Oh, and by the way:

its pretty obvious that women get bored when you cling to them, when you are too reliable and when you hang on their every word, most women like a man who takes charge, its not attractive being her human puppy dog ... (im i an animalist now?)

Okay, what the fuck are you talking about? I mean, really? No, women don't get bored when you cling to them. Like anyone, male or female, women get annoyed when you cling to them; there's a difference. When get bored when you are too reliable? There's no such thing as being TOO reliable. And if there was, then no one of the planet would prefer someone who is irresponsible over TOO reliable; that would just be fucking stupid. Why would someone even waste their time? Women get bored when you hang on their every word? Right, because no woman wants a man who listens or pays attention. Nope, not at all. Most women like a man who takes charge, it's not attractive being her human puppy dog. You're absolutely right! Most women do like a man who takes charge, but that doesn't mean that the guy has to be an insecure, judgmental, puerile, obnoxious dick.

By the way, Denzel- the next time you decide to use a word, such as animalist, be sure to at least google it's meaning first.

:rolleyes::cool::biggrin1::tongue::rolleyes:
 
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oOoOo Buuuuuurn!

Just so you know, I identify myself as gay, but I'm bisexual. And poo on you for relying on someone's gay to straight ratio in their profile(because yes! We all know that everyone 100% straight male on lpsg is truly 100% straight! What the fuck was I thinking?). I've slept with and dated women. As I've stated before in your thread regarding "how many is too many"- I'm just more favorable towards men when it comes to dating and sex; I enjoy male bonding and rough sex that would probably bruise and batter most women. I mean, not many women prefer to be slammed against a wall by a 6'2, 320 pound black man; or are strong enough to slam me against a wall for that matter. But I digress. I didn't call you sexist because I disagree with you. I called you a sexist because of the way you generalize women; the same way you'd probably call someone a racist if they said that all black people were on welfare or they're lazy.

And what's to ask? You make your points quite clear, and you prove time and time again that there's no modifying them. So why the hell should I ask? I don't ask because I don't really give a shit to know. You're a sexy light-skinned thing, but you are NO DENZEL!!! How dare you even make that comparison, boo boo. I think not...

And do I think you're homophobic? Absolutely not- you like getting attention from men. I realize that the two aren't synonymous, but to have a true homophobe who likes getting attention from the same sex regarding their genitals is quite rare. I'm very fortunate to be who I am and have the insight that I do. Women tend to trust gay men and let us into their secret world. It's with us that women discuss life, friends, family, love, and sex. I've had my fair share of women- my digits aren't in the double digits as of yet, but I've learned what I need to know. And I know enough to respect women.

So there you have it! I quoted Dr. Angelou not to seem like an intellectual, but because I felt that it was relevant, so why not? Besides, I already know that I'm very intelligent.


Oh, and by the way:



Okay, what the fuck are you talking about? I mean, really? No, women don't get bored when you cling to them. Like anyone, male or female, women get annoyed when you cling to them; there's a difference. When get bored when you are too reliable? There's no such thing as being TOO reliable. And if there was, then no one of the planet would prefer someone who is irresponsible over TOO reliable; that would just be fucking stupid. Why would someone even waste their time? Women get bored when you hang on their every word? Right, because no woman wants a man who listens or pays attention. Nope, not at all. Most women like a man who takes charge, it's not attractive being her human puppy dog. You're absolutely right! Most women do like a man who takes charge, but that doesn't mean that the guy has to be an insecure, judgmental, puerile, obnoxious dick.

By the way, Denzel- the next time you decide to use a word, such as animalist, be sure to at least google it's meaning first.

:rolleyes::cool::biggrin1::tongue::rolleyes:


lol, thanks for the compliment, but i never compared myself to denzel, honestly, i dont want to look like denzel, i want to look like me .. i was just making a point (great actor btw)

and being bored and annoyed pretty end up with the same result .. a dry penis .. so in my book its the same thing

and when i mean by too reliable, is making yourself to available to women ... they will never admit this, but they like the "challenge" or "chase" it takes to seduce a guy, very few things dry up a pussy like giving in to her too soon ... eventually, she will take you for granted (like all things, if its always there, why fight for it to stick around?) .. again they will never admit it ... im not saying go out and be a jerk to the girl, just dont be a weak, kiss ass, thats never attractive

and you know what i meant by "animalist" lol (think racist but with animals) ... i did do a quick google search by the way and i feel a little dumb about it, but nbd

ps .. i dont "like" getting male attention sense im not attracted to them, but i know i can't help it if a guy is watching when im jerkin off on the cam chat thing lol .. so why be a douche and "fight" what another human being is trying to see?
 

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lol, thanks for the compliment, but i never compared myself to denzel, honestly, i dont want to look like denzel, i want to look like me .. i was just making a point (great actor btw)

and being bored and annoyed pretty end up with the same result .. a dry penis .. so in my book its the same thing

and when i mean by too reliable, is making yourself to available to women ... they will never admit this, but they like the "challenge" or "chase" it takes to seduce a guy, very few things dry up a pussy like giving in to her too soon ... eventually, she will take you for granted (like all things, if its always there, why fight for it to stick around?) .. again they will never admit it ... im not saying go out and be a jerk to the girl, just dont be a weak, kiss ass, thats never attractive

and you know what i meant by "animalist" lol (think racist but with animals) ... i did do a quick google search by the way and i feel a little dumb about it, but nbd

ps .. i dont "like" getting male attention sense im not attracted to them, but i know i can't help it if a guy is watching when im jerkin off on the cam chat thing lol .. so why be a douche and "fight" what another human being is trying to see?

I don't even know what to say right now. It's like going Rock'em Sock'em Robot on Mr. Ed's corpse; but it's all good. I'm just glad for your sake that you're sexy, and kind of funny. And in the future, you can make your cam private so you can deny anyone from viewing you (except admins and mods). Now you know, and enjoy your day.
 

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I don't even know what to say right now. It's like going Rock'em Sock'em Robot on Mr. Ed's corpse; but it's all good. I'm just glad for your sake that you're sexy, and kind of funny. And in the future, you can make your cam private so you can deny anyone from viewing you (except admins and mods). Now you know, and enjoy your day.


i love being compared to a dead body, makes me feel so .. alive .. and i dont find a need to make it private, i dont care who watches .... (i'll just make sure you get front row tickets) lol

enjoy yours too man:smile:
 

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So I go out with a girl and when I drop her off, she says to text her when I get home to let her know I got home alright (she is about an hour away and was worried I'd get lost.) So I do, and mention how I had a good time and hope to meet again next week. She says yeah, that she will get back to me when she knows what she's doing. That was last weekend - not the weekend that just happened. Never heard from her. She snubbed me. I'm pretty mad, and I'm not even gonna bother saying anything to our mutual friends because I know people will just say that I can't expect it to work with everyone. But I can be damn sure that if it were me doing the snubbing, that her friends would be all pissed off at me for being mean.

So why do women get to snub guys and it's ok, but when a guy does it, he's either a player or some other such term??

You are assuming a lot of reactions from others without much evidence. I think you would feel better if you tell your friends your feelings got hurt. Just to get it out of your system, not because you want a prescribed reaction from them.

Hurt feelings show that you were taken with her, that's all, and possibly she was less taken with you. This happens. And I don't think either sex is so enslaved to peer pressure as you describe.
 

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You (and many others posting here) are making this much too complicated. I can only assume that you are young and near the beginning of your dating life. Here is the secret:

Sometimes it clicks. Sometimes it doesn't. The best you can hope for is that you learn which it is early enough to spare yourself some embarassment. Move on.

I hope I helped.