helgaleena
Sexy Member
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- Female
A lot of guys are put off by women who 'put out' on the first date or after only knowing them a brief while.
I think the reasoning is: if they will have sex with [me] so quickly then maybe they'll have sex with other people right away too. Which is not what you want in a girlfriend or a mother/wife.
Plus personally, relationships where you have sex right away never last that long or are that rewarding/meaningful anyway.
But a woman can have sex with anyone she wants. It's just that if you have sex with someone right away then you reduce the chances of it being a proper long term relationship and increase the chances of it being a one night stand.
The bolded part is faulty reasoning. Having sex with someone right away means you are extra sexy, usually. Why blame your sexiness on the susceptible female?
If I don't have sex with you and make you wait for weeks and months, I feel like I am just a player trying to get you to pay for fancy meals etc. and you are not actually that attractive. In all honesty I should enlighten you about it but mister Sexier Than Thou has not yet arrived.
addendum: How the hell do I know if we are actually a compatible couple before we have sex? I don't! It's got to be addressed sometime, IMO sooner rather than later.
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