speaking of online hookups.. how safe is it? do u trust the guys and their cum? do you guys swallow a random strangers nut?
Meeting someone in real life is fraught with risks as well. Date rape, person is a creeper/stalker, knowingly has a STD and doesn't tell you even though you have sex, etc.
The main barrier with online hook-ups is you are presented with a virtual representation of what
they want you to see.
So, don't meet without seeing their face pic and/or body shot with face. Take a look at their dick pic, preferably a couple shots so you can compare and make a judgement call if they just pulled it off the internet.
Chat with them. You can generally get a fairly good feel of someone not only by what they are texting, but how they are communicating. Are they pushy? One word messages all the time? Press to see your pics and they have a fairly blank profile? Overly heavy sexual talk, in a creepy way? Wants to bareback, even though you aren't into it? Things like that.
You can also meet them in person first. You don't have to go for dinner, but waiting outside a coffee shop and seeing them in person, or saying a very brief hello, can tell you volumes. Most people don't want to do this, but the ones that do are the people that tend to be more genuine.
Meeting someone anonymously without any safeguards on your part is just asking for trouble. Some people are into the high risk nature, but the potential for things going really wrong is very real. You can make it safer, and thus more enjoyable, by working within your comfort zones and setting boundaries.
