Douche taboo?

[Drippyveinyuncut4me]

When I was younger douching was kind of unmentionable. When you went out to pull you hoped the guy had prepared.. And that was as far as it went unless you were happy to discuss your methods etc...

Now I find myself kind of curious about it.. What would it be like to be that intimately engaged with a man.. Hosing out seems far more intrusive than slipping your dick in without so much as a by your leave...

So have you douche a guys ass, or let someone douche yours? Or would you consider it?

 

[winesthel945]

If you're eating right and generally healthy, you should have a pretty good sense of whether you need to clean yourself out prior to sex. Obviously it depends on how hard/deep/long you're going to go, but you should have a sense of whether it's going to be a chocolate soft-serve machine up in there or not.

Most tops who have any level of experience topping know what they've signed up for and are used to there sometimes being a bit of residue. But it's also incumbent on the bottom to know what's going on in their basement and whether it's a reasonable risk to take at that given moment.

That said, cleaning out is not too difficult and can be accomplished quickly without a lot of equipment or effort. Hell, I've done it just using a plastic bottle of drinking water pressed firmly against my hole and squeezing. The result was not like a glacier-fed creek, but it was completely fine.

If you have any questions, you should check out: How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Sex | Illustrated guide for douching your rectum, how to properly get an enema in your own shower. Get your ass clean for fucking, fisting, dildoes, rimming, anal play.

 

[Drippyveinyuncut4me]

If you're eating right and generally healthy, you should have a pretty good sense of whether you need to clean yourself out prior to sex. Obviously it depends on how hard/deep/long you're going to go, but you should have a sense of whether it's going to be a chocolate soft-serve machine up in there or not.

Most tops who have any level of experience topping know what they've signed up for and are used to there sometimes being a bit of residue. But it's also incumbent on the bottom to know what's going on in their basement and whether it's a reasonable risk to take at that given moment.

That said, cleaning out is not too difficult and can be accomplished quickly without a lot of equipment or effort. Hell, I've done it just using a plastic bottle of drinking water pressed firmly against my hole and squeezing. The result was not like a glacier-fed creek, but it was completely fine.

If you have any questions, you should check out: How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Sex | Illustrated guide for douching your rectum, how to properly get an enema in your own shower. Get your ass clean for fucking, fisting, dildoes, rimming, anal play.

Trust me after 40 years I have no questions about how when or why...

What I asked is havs anyone ever shared the experience with another guy buy administering or having it administered to/by another person

 

[armando986]

I haven't douched or been douched by anyone, but a friend of mine and his partner did this all the time. They were really open and good communicating their feeling to each other. They didn't do this all the time, but only in specific occasions, when they were about to have rough sex or fisting. The explanation they gave me was that douching for these events was really exhausting and it was not fair that the bottom was the only one responsible for the task

 

[Brodie888]

It's like putting on a Broadway show.

The tops are like the audience. They don't know what goes on behind the curtain to give them a flawless production let alone the preparation to make it all look effortless.

While there are some tops who can appreciate that it's a live show and sometimes things don't go to plan. Others are harsh withering critics who are unforgiving despite the fact they have no experience of putting on a show.

Often the bottom is in a no win situation. On the one hand the top wants an absolutely spotless session but at the same time they want the session to be instantaneous and spontaneous.

So a bottom has to put on a magic show where they create the illusion of spontaneous by cleaning deep, not eating, avoiding coffee, high fibre, imodium etc hours before so they can simply bend over and jam that dick in immediately.