Hi All, Am glad you all liked my Once's you tried black can you ever go back thread - it definately seemed to provoke some strong reactions/views. Anyway here i am with yet another dilema. Prior to going on a date, generally i arrange to meet most of my men up in bars or at bus stops (the bus station in Peckham is great - i once blew 6 men in a row waiting for the 436 - i had that much spunk running down my jowls that i had to put my jacket into the dry cleaners which incidentally went bust....i digress.) Is it presumptious or plain old good manners to douche and prelube before going out on a date for the first time. Does it make me a slut or am i simply doing all house keeping required prior to any potential sexual encounter. Also is it wrong of my to ask if they want me douched - it sort of stiffles the conversation - i reckon it's best everyone is in the picture of what my expectation of the encounter is all about right? Basically 'to douche or not to douche' that is the question.