I am a married guy - been w/ 2 guys ever in my life. First was in college, before I was married. Second guy was high school friend w/ benefits until last year. Tonight I met up with a hung black guy and he nailed me. Cheating is cheating - I know that intellectually. I love my wife and would never stray with another woman. But I don't feel the same way about guys. Why is that? Anyone else feel the same?