Dr - choice of male or female

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  1. xenon-naturist

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    When I had to see a Dr about my cock I was keen to see a male - I am male and gay so am used to having my cock handled by men, but not at all by women. In particular I thought that if I were to spring a woodie, a male would be more understanding.

    When I went to the clinic I was told it was a first come, first served basis so while I could ask for a male, this could mean waiting longer. I said that was OK. After a while a woman came and called me - despite being nervous I was able to say I'd rather wait. She was OK about this.

    However on subsequent visits, whether to this or another place, I have had a mixed response. Once I was told that the secretary didn't think I was allowed to make such a request - her tone was such that I thought I would be reported for sex discrimination - on another occasion a particularly aggressive female doctor called me, I said I would wait and she snapped at me - in front of a room full of people "since you don't want to see me", which was not of course true - I had merely asked to see a man.

    One time I did see a woman - on the basis that a Dr is a Dr - but she was rude, arrogant and thoroughly unpleasant. This merely strengthened my resolve.

    I am sure that if there were a clinic with male/female doctors and a female asked for a female, her request would be met without question. Equally if someone professed some religious "faith" that too that restricted their choice, efforts would be made to satisfy this but it seems that something as straightforward as a male asking to see a male - specifically to have his cock examined and not for a general complaint - is alone seen as bad. Has anyone else been in a similar situation in the UK, the USA or Canada?
     
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    Except for my dentist; all of my doctors are women. I appreciate how much more nurturing they are than any male doctors I've had in the past.
     
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    What about Canada? :frown1:

    I feel slightly more comfortable with a male doctor, but it's not really that important to me. If i have any bias, I would rather have a younger doctor than an older one.
     
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    I see both male and female doctors. My hernia, ball check and prostrate was last tested by a female..... He comment of "My that is a big one" was unfortunately directed at my prince albert.:frown1:
     
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    I personally prefer seeing a male doctor as well, especially when it comes physical exam and checking the penis/balls. I guess it's a matter of personal comfort.

    I go to a clinic as well, but I usually ask to see the same doctor. It's better to have some continuity both for you and the doctor. I would recommend that you do the same. If that's not an option, next time when you ask to see a male doctor, don't be nervous like you are doing something wrong. If someone sanp at you, just politely ask "is that a problem?" Be assertive! It is not an unreasonable request.
     
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    I prefer females doctors. :tongue: Though a bad doctor is just terrible regardless of gender.
     
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    Well I'm not sure how to answer this question. I actually go to a transgendered doctor, she runs his own clinic and it's just the one Doctor available. It simply is the best experience you can get out of a doctors visit. I am listened too and my oppinions are at the top of her list of concerns. Whatever I ask for I get after we discuss the situation. It's never a rush to get me out the door or push some RX sales reps flavor of the month on me either. I suggest you do some research and see if a similar doctor is available in your area. You won't be sorry.
     
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    This question is actually sort of funny to me. I don't know why I find it amusing but I do.

    I guess because my cock is so big, I don't have a problem showing it to just about anyone who asks so a female doctor doesn't bother me at all. As a matter of fact, the first female doctor I saw was 10 years ago for my vasectomy. It was a little embarrassing at first because I had a raging hard on after her ultra hot nurse finished the shaving job that I half assed completed. The nurse seemed to pay it much more attnetion than was necessary but I didn't mind one bit. The doc came in and immediately flipped the gown up to get at the surgery. She gapsed and and was embarrased at first. She said "oh my, what a big surprise that is". We shared a nervous laugh and she grabbed my cock and thumped it under the head. It started to fall and then she did her thing.

    I've been seeing her as my primary physician ever since. Oh, and by the way, I was dating / fucking her nurse for 6 months afterwards.
     
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    I love it. :cool:
     
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    I have a male doctor and there has only been one time which he has had to examine my groin..I felt very comfortable, and it was the first time someone else had touched my penis in a non sexual way. I didn't even think about becoming hard...and thankfully I didn't. plus any doctor would deal with this kind of thing on a weekly basis, so they are not interested in who has a large penis or who is or isn't circumcised or what color it is. The more comfortable you feel with your doctor, the easier anything involving this subject will be.
     
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    Back to the OP's comments and inquiry.

    I am curious as to where you are located geographically and is it urban surburban or rural. Also what kinds of doctor's offices or practices you are going to.

    I would guess some kind of HMO or Low cost clinic because professionalism seems to be lacking - not just among staff but the doctors also.

    I would think it a given that both men and women have preferences about private parts being handled and a quality health provider would respect that no matter what the gender of the patient.

    I would agree that if a female expressed a preference it would be honored without problem or comment. It might seem odd for a woman to request a male but again trying to make the patient comfortable and meeting their needs should have a very high priority.

    A religious belief might be the reason for such a request - so even if one does not give the reason for requesting a particular gender - the staff that implies a patient is guilty of sex discrimination may find themselves being charged with religious discrimination.
     
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    I prefer a doctor that will listen to me. I find that most of the women doctors seem to listen to me better than the male doctors I have been to. I'm not shy and if it comes to something to do with my penis or anything sexually, I just tell it like it is and to me, it seems the female doctors pay more attention.
     
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    I have had physicals performed by male doctors all but once. The one time it was a female I was nervous as hell because she was hot as hell and got a slight chubby at first, then after the questions and talking to her a bit I realized that she was very professional so by the time she said "ok, if you could please take off your shirt and pants so I can check you for a hernia and check your spine, I'll be right back" the chub was gone and I had somewhat of hanger (not much of one :smile:) when she returned and the rest of the exam was neither a nervous, unpleasant, or pleasant experience. Kind of neutral.

    Giving the chance I would have ate that pussy up and poked it with my joy stick no doubt.
     
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    I tend to think this is generally true. Maybe it's because women are generally better listeners and more apt to accept the opinions of other people.

    When it comes to urologists however, I like to go to a male. I want someone who knows from personal experience what is going down there so when I say, "Yeah it kinda hurts back there, ya know?," they know. My experience with females and my genitals has been more perfunctory. It's like they don't want to spend any time down there, are tentative, and that makes me feel like I can't discuss any issues I might have with the plumbing.

    I don't know why so many women see male gynecologists. It just amazes me. Give the complexity of everything down there and how uncomfortable GYN exams seem to be, if I were a woman, I'd be make seeing a female gynecologist a priority.

    I'm surprised there have been so many unprofessional comments made about previous posters' genitals. I've had one comment from a urologist and his was, "It's just so small," so perhaps I shouldn't be so shocked.
     
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    Fucking fantasist :rolleyes:

    Note to guys with the doc / nurse fantasy - nurses and doctors (of either sex) do not play with patients' cocks, not even surreptitiously as 'paying it more attention than necessary' - they would get fired / struck off if they did. Nor would a doctor or a nurse comment 'my what a big one!' upon seeing any male member, regardless of size. It just wouldn't happen. No more than a dotor would say 'Great jugs' or 'Nice rack' to a fine breasted woman who stripped off in his / her office. By all means construct your 'hot medical professional' fantasy but don't attempt to post it here as reality. You will be laughed at.
     
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    Male Doctor for me. During my yearly check ups, I was a little scared I would get a hard on when he checking my penis during my exams. Lucky it hasn't happened yet. I am more comfortable speaking with him than I would with a female doctor.
     
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    I want the best doctor available
     
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    Oh contraire, Gregory House would, and did I think, in a heartbeat. Got to love "House".
     
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    I personally prefer seeing a male health provider doctor as well. I am a male nurse practitioner and have seen thousands of patients- both male and female. I guess it's a matter of personal comfort.
     
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    Yeah - cos, like, he's a real doctor and not a fictional character! :rolleyes:

    :tongue:
     
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