While I appreciate we all have our various opinions of most members on this board, it is extremely poor show to go on a verbal attack of a member no longer with us for what ever reason.
She has chosen to remove herself from the board, as evident by her thread, further personal attacks will be subject to mod discussion and possible warnings leading to bans if continued past that point.
Kotchanski
Mod/Admin team.
My lady,
Thank you. Not really knowing you outside of this, I must say you have just left me with a great impression.
I wholly advocate freedom of speech. If you can't display some tact and present something other than viscous attacks on someone who can no longer even defend themselves, however, your words are meaningless. If you all feel that you are not saying anything here that you wouldn't have said directly to her, then I say it's no wonder she left. There is no reason someone should have to deal with this type environment. If she truely did present people with falsehoods about who she is, I don't know that I can fault her, though I have personally never doubted her. If it is the case though, maybe it was because she was weary of who she could trust, and apparently she was on the right track. I am suprised by some of the people I have seen bad mouth her in this thread. To those people, I say that you dissapoint me. Whether you have talked to me or not, even if you don't know who the hell I am, I held you in higher regard than that. Obviously my mistake. To others, you have done nothing but perpetuate the belief that you require drama in in world in order to survive. My feeling is that if you Don't like someone, avoid them. It's that simple. There are plenty of people here whom I see shit talking in threads and egging others on. I simply move on to the next thread. I have begun learning who to avoid and this has definately helped. The friends I have made here, I believe are amazing people. So I am thankful for them. For the rest, however, making comments about what an unhappy/ miserable/ fake/ vile person someone is simply puts you in the same boat. Sounds to me like some people need to stop projecting and look inward. That's my view. I personally enjoy Dragonfly and will miss her here.
Kotchanski, once again, thank you. Your diplomacy and professionalism is refreshing.
I am very excited to have you on the mod team.
