Hi all, I'm new to this forum, but I've been reading it for a while. I'm soon to be divorced, and about to do a major wardrobe update. Of course I want to look my best as I get back into dating. My question is, how much "bulge" looks sexy to women? I imagine wearing pants that leave nothing to the imagination is just gross, but wearing really tight briefs that bind everything to a really unnoticable bump isn't good either. So how far should I go??? By the way, I'm 46, only 5'5", slim/athletic, and in terms of this forum perhaps large for my height but not really large compared to some... I'm 7.5 x 5.25. Thanks!