Drunk with new friend...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by luckyinky, Feb 29, 2008.

  1. luckyinky

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    So... maybe this is "normal" behaviour but I'm not so used to it.

    This guy who I'm sort of friends with... mostly face book and we've shared words a few times before, we started talking recently. I said what should we do, he said come over and get drunk. So we're planning I'm like I'll have to crash, etc. He says it's fine.

    I'm already getting ideas forming in my head. He's cute, he wants to get drunk, etc. Tonight we were talking and he joking. He then says he's got a bunch of porn, like a whole external full, I say we'll have to check it out. He says something like oh drunk and jacking off. It's cool. Done it a bunch before. Then is like Well, I'll tell you later. PS, he claims to be straight... as do I to most people, and especially as far as he's concerned.

    Do you think I should actually expect that when I come over. The two of us, drinking at his place? Nudity and hard dicks and cum everywhere. I'd love to try something farther with him. Lend him a hand or more... So, also, how should I go about it?
     
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    Don't over think it.
    Make little comments on his cock, if you should see it.
    Be the first to start stroking your cock watching the vids.
    If he's bi or gay, it'll happen
     
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    ........Just go for it dude .......(Fortune favours the brave.)....:rolleyes: .......GOOD LUCK.
     
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    Great line, Gonzo! I'll remember that one.

    How often do we kick ourselves in the butt for not going for something when the window of opportunity was briefly open? If you get buzzed, you can always play the "I was drunk" card.
     
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    Yeah, that's what happened (falling down drunk...worse than shitfaced) to me years ago and opened up my thinking to M2M pleasures.
     
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    You lucky duck. He's already told you what to expect. If you want anything more, just ask him, before you get too drunk.:wink:
     
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    Sounds like a fun night. Keep us posted on what transpires.
     
  8. luckyinky

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    So he and I hung out tonight a bit. Not so much drunk, but drinking a bit and did get buzzed for two seconds. Ha ha. Not literally, but felt like it. He said he's somewhere in between at first. Asked me, I told him I am in between. Talked about "gay stuff" for a while. Then he said there was a guy who had hit on him/come on to him and he turned him down. THEN, said he did experience once in HS and that it was just experimentation. Making out and groping and it ended up being weird. We talked about times getting it on. He mentioned a bunch that he's not really out because his family would way dissaprove and it'd be bad all around. It was just mixed signals everywhere. Ha ha. Before I left he was like "So, tomorrow booze, porn and... anything else you want" I told him no. So we'll see.
     
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    He`s so testing the water. He is looking for a guy that can keep his secret, Show him he can trust you and this guy is yours for the taking.

    I have had this situation half a dozen times and it always has the same outcome. Trust me he really is desperate for your dick. Trouble is he just can`t quite come out and say it. Take the lead. Just make sure he is "drunk" then he will have his excuse! One thing i will say is DO NOT expect anything except casual sex from this guy. He is looking for a fling/affair. Also you need to be prepared for him to get a girlfriend and still want your cock. Can you cope with that? I know this all seems a bit in the future and far fetched but having seen this scenario many times, i speak from experience.
     
  10. luckyinky

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    Well, thankfully I don't expect anything or want anything other than for us to have some fun getting off.

    We'll see what happens. We just cancelled our plans for tonight... so it'll be a few weekends from now. Whatever. Would've been nice, he may call me tonight still he said. So, eh -- we'll go with the flow.
     
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    work it in by playing cards or something. drunkenly suggest strip poker or something like that, and let it flow from there...
    Worked for me
     
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    lol in these types of threads the first thing ppl always suggest is to get them drunk. How about you get it done sober so no one can be mad at each other considering you did it when you werent under the influence.
     
  13. luckyinky

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    Well, he and I the other day put a lot of stuff out there, kind of bluntly too. So it looks like we'll have some fun soon.
     
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    Make sure u keep us posted!!!
     
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    Well we talked on line last night... we were both naked actually. Not for any reason in particular, just were, he out of the shower and me alone in my room. We both have cams on computers he invited me to chat w/ him so I did. Ended up me j/o for him and he did for me a bit, but he was really interested in seeing mine. We talked a bunch about getting together and jo some time. It was kind of hot, for me at least.
     
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    Wow! Wish I had that happen to me when I was younger. I think he's in denial, but he is interested in you. At least curious anyway!
     
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    Luckyinky: I'm glad for you. It's exciting when you break new ground, huh?! I think that the next thing will be that you jerk off together. Once you are comfortable with that, try jerking each other off. One of my friends and I used to jerk each other and we had a lot of fun with it. Hand jobs are great! Continued good luck with your friend.
     
  18. luckyinky

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    So latest update: I crashed at his place the other night. As we were going to bed he was like "Let me know if you sleep naked, in case I come out here (to living room, I was on the couch) I don't want any surprises." I told him it wasn't a surprise he said oh yeah, cause of the other night. He told me he slept naked so I wouldn't be surprised and I said same thing to him. I'm on the couch and he goes "Well, I'm dissapointed we didnt do what we talked about..." I tell him I'm game if he is, we do this for a few minutes "If you want..." "I'm fine" "You sure..." etc.

    He comes out in boxer breifs, as I am in. He pulls up some vid he has, was okay. He doesn't jack but says "If you want go ahead"... basically he was really into watching me. Somehow, I got him to whip his out ... I even offered him a hand (He said he couldn't get hard). We flip through vids online for a while, joking a bit back and forth and switching between vids. He keeps telling me to find something I like, I wanted to go w/ some gay stuff, but didn't ... yet.(Will try next time).

    Anyways, it was hot. We then walked around naked for a while, showering talking etc. I think we'll get to do it again and I'll really pull out some "other" stuff. He didn't seem too opposed to gay porn, btw.

    He really liked watching me cum, which was hot.
     
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    that would be nice - keep us posted. Good Luck.
     
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    This is wonderful and really hot. Makes me wanna try again for something like that.
     
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