Drunk with new friend...

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Wow! Wish I had that happen to me when I was younger.

It still can happen for you. Make it happen.:smile:

I crashed at his place the other night. As we were going to bed he was like "Let me know if you sleep naked, in case I come out here"...
I'm on the couch and he goes...

He should have let you sleep in the bed. How big is it? <i.e. the bed>:naughty:

I'm glad that you are off to a good start anyway luckyinky.:wink:
 

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Funny you mention that dreamer. I have in retrospect thought I should've done it. We even debated moving the couch to a pull-out for a while and decided not to. We'll see what happens next time, which'll probably have alcohol involved.

I don't think I said this, but he did mention some about wanting to film me JO and put it on Xtube... no face thoug. Should I? I've contemplated saying a yeah "If he works it" or other stuff. Any ideas...?
 

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I don't think I said this, but he did mention some about wanting to film me JO and put it on Xtube... no face thoug. Should I? I've contemplated saying a yeah "If he works it" or other stuff. Any ideas...?



Yeah, why not? But then again I am an exhibitionist! If you do, give us the link! :wink:
 

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Dude, what is going on between you and your friend is awsome. I doubt that his only intention is just sex, I think he is more trying to find a pall, somebody to share something he can not share with anybody else. If I were u, I would feel honored of being in that position, cause your friend wouldn`t trust such deep things if he weren`t sure you are a good guy, somebody he can trust and won&#180;t let him down or tell his secret.
Go for it, help him take this step, maybe he is not fooling around, instead he might be pretty confused.

Luis
 

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Hey guys... it's been a while now, since he and I had our fun. Sadly, we talk a lot on line. A lot about porn, jerking it, the time we had together jerking it (which is usually teasing each other or talking about it). It's been good, I'm just hoping he'd like soon to do more. I would love to take it to the next step really, should I just slyly put my hand on his dick? Comments... ?
 

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So finally a REAL update!

He and I hung out a bit tonight. We watch TV, play games, etc. Then he says "I have some porn if you want to, but I'm not into it." I say sure if anything is hot. He pulls up some stuff, I start rubbing. I pull it out, with jeans on and underwear on and dick out. Finally after a while he says if he's the reason I'm keeping clothes on. I take off my clothes, says he should to. He says "sure I guess I'm kinda hard" we compare sizes by sight. I say stand up, we get side by side, compare thickness by grabbing each other. Sit back down.

After jackin for a bit, finally he says he's not gonna cum. I tell him to try. Finally I ask if I can. Start jackin him and myself. Says it's different since he's cut and I'm not. He asks really, and trys at mine for a while. I keep on, he says I don't have to. I tell him I don't mind, as long as it won't make it weird. He says sure, it's good. I get some tips, jack myself, and get him close a few times. I tell him since he said he couldn't cum, I'm going to do it for him (if he wasn't covered with lube I may've put my mouth on it ;)) I get close, he says he can't. I cum all over the place. He then jacks for about 5 more min and cums hard. We chat for a while then shower. Joke about it being fun and a bit weird. It was hot, he's a bit smaller than I and not as thick, but it is real hot, and he just shaved recently too so it was nice (well he's trimmed way low there, but chest/belly is naked!) It was a very hot experience and if some day I can get him to do some more, I definitely will.

It's hot.

In other news with him, he said the other night if I knew some guy and if he was gay. He goes about saying he thought the guy was checking him out. Since he made his "I'm straight" comment a while ago I figured he was straight enough. I ask, and he says he's open to experimentation, and would like to with this kid. The guy on the other hand, I have no clue about. 50% of things says he is, (including old roomies) and he says and other signs from him say he's not. He's an odd guy himself. Cutie though.

Perhaps another day we'll do more, and I'll share with you.
 

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Hey Lucky--glad you're fun with this guy. It seems like your friend is slowly exploring his sexuality and he's doing it the safe baby steps way. Enjoy the ride.
 

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So he and I hung out tonight a bit. Not so much drunk, but drinking a bit and did get buzzed for two seconds. Ha ha. Not literally, but felt like it. He said he's somewhere in between at first. Asked me, I told him I am in between. Talked about "gay stuff" for a while. Then he said there was a guy who had hit on him/come on to him and he turned him down. THEN, said he did experience once in HS and that it was just experimentation. Making out and groping and it ended up being weird. We talked about times getting it on. He mentioned a bunch that he's not really out because his family would way dissaprove and it'd be bad all around. It was just mixed signals everywhere. Ha ha. Before I left he was like "So, tomorrow booze, porn and... anything else you want" I told him no. So we'll see.

unless u knew him before facebook, is anyone else going to point out the obvious and very serious dangers of meeting someone online and getting drunk the FIRST DATE??!?!?!
 

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unless u knew him before facebook, is anyone else going to point out the obvious and very serious dangers of meeting someone online and getting drunk the FIRST DATE??!?!?!

Well Marley, I don't think it's really any different then drinking at a bar and meeting someone and going home with them. And it wasn't really a first date, it was a first hanging out--it's what straight guys do.:wink:
 

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Well Marley, I don't think it's really any different then drinking at a bar and meeting someone and going home with them. And it wasn't really a first date, it was a first hanging out--it's what straight guys do.:wink:

is meeting somebody at a bar really that safe?? i never do unless their friends will be there and several of mine, definitely not one on one, you have no idea what this dudes intentions could be
 

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is meeting somebody at a bar really that safe?? i never do unless their friends will be there and several of mine, definitely not one on one, you have no idea what this dudes intentions could be

Well, relatively speaking I'm sure it is safe. I think the only time it may possibly not be safe is if large drugs are consumed and then the risk is a sexual health risk. I mean, I'm sure crazy Hostel stuff does happen but it's few and far between.
 

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Well, relatively speaking I'm sure it is safe. I think the only time it may possibly not be safe is if large drugs are consumed and then the risk is a sexual health risk. I mean, I'm sure crazy Hostel stuff does happen but it's few and far between.

okay, i wish OP the best but i say the same thing to my friends, especially when things like this are done over myspace, facebook, etc... cuz those kind of sites are the perfect mask for the deranged, perverted, and violent. don't forget how matthew shephard (RIP) ended up being tied to the back of a truck, just showing concern that's all
 

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okay, i wish OP the best but i say the same thing to my friends, especially when things like this are done over myspace, facebook, etc... cuz those kind of sites are the perfect mask for the deranged, perverted, and violent. don't forget how matthew shephard (RIP) ended up being tied to the back of a truck, just showing concern that's all

I understand your concern Marley and everyone should look out for themselves but Mr Shephard didn't meet those guys on facebook or myspace or even gay.com. In this day and age, the internet is like the bar scene and it's not really that scary at all. There are easy ways to suss people out anyways. You chat for a bit, you meet in a public space, you let someone know where you're going, you pay attention and you trust red flags or gut instincts.
 

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I understand your concern Marley and everyone should look out for themselves but Mr Shephard didn't meet those guys on facebook or myspace or even gay.com. In this day and age, the internet is like the bar scene and it's not really that scary at all. There are easy ways to suss people out anyways. You chat for a bit, you meet in a public space, you let someone know where you're going, you pay attention and you trust red flags or gut instincts.

i may have misread the post, i was left with the impression that he chatted with the guy for a day or 2 then went to his apartment to get drunk which definitely sounds suspect but obviously he survived so all is well, i can take my Homo-Man cape off and return to my day job as Zac Efron's make-up stylist
 

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Thanks For the congrats. I enjoy having fun with him. Myself I'm a bit closeted too, so it's nice to have a hook up that, even though intentions initially were otherwise, isn't a drunk thing.

He and I go to a small school-- very small -- and I was his RA his first year there. So we know each other pretty well before hand, but never really hung out.
 

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He`s so testing the water. He is looking for a guy that can keep his secret, Show him he can trust you and this guy is yours for the taking.

I have had this situation half a dozen times and it always has the same outcome. Trust me he really is desperate for your dick. Trouble is he just can`t quite come out and say it. Take the lead. Just make sure he is "drunk" then he will have his excuse! One thing i will say is DO NOT expect anything except casual sex from this guy. He is looking for a fling/affair. Also you need to be prepared for him to get a girlfriend and still want your cock. Can you cope with that? I know this all seems a bit in the future and far fetched but having seen this scenario many times, i speak from experience.

Weird I finf myself in this situation now. He says he loves his gf, but we always end up fooling around.