Go to
www.vaginismus.com to check out what they say. I was suprised that many of the things people complain about here fall under that category.
I have heard that one's vagina goes back to its original state if not used regularly. So... I hope that site helps a bit.
Oh Man, there is some scarey stuff on that site, I know I get tighter with a dry spell, but I've had different sized dildos for years now, I don't go more than a week with out using them when Im not getting any-Thank God!!! I've heard men talk about women that never seem to get tight, I don't know if they are having sex everynight or what