Dude, I'm a man, not a woman...

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There's something absolutely erotic and appealing in sex with a chubbier person. Don't think me wrong, but I'm so tyred of the abs adds and all those hyper sculpted persons, that some real sex is missed.

Lame diets and unreal workouts just drain my mind and give me the impression that we, the less thinner people, don't deserve equal treatment...

On one of those 'gay night club' nights with friends I got approached by a (apparently) nice guy trying to pick me up. He flirted but then everything went downward:
Reaching under my shirt, with obvious intentions he grabbed my breast.
Men, just so you know, grabbing another dudes breast and treating them as if a woman isn't an option. Please don't do that. Or if you DO like that, do it to a woman, not me...

It screwed me all up.
I live the chubby life, and I'm proud of it. What about you?
 

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What a peculiar thing for him to do. Wonder why he felt that was appropriate?

I'm pretty much 'skinny' myself and just sex-wise there's obviously certain aspects that I'm attracted to and not. Relationship-wise though, it just depends on the person and how well I get on with them/how attached I become to them, so none of that really matters at that point.

In both cases though, I don't have a definitive 'type' and it just depends person-by-person really.
 

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I felt awkward, you know? Yes, I have mirrors and know the way I look, but just the fact that my breast are bigger than average doesn't mean I like them touched with the full hand treatment.. :/
screw him, I'm better than a lame pick up! :D
 

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I'm with you on so many levels. I was once told on an online chat line that the guy wanted to come over and fuck my man-pussy. DELETE! Don't EVEN called it that.

I'm also with you on the diet and exercise and ab bullshit. I'm not at all attracted to guys with 6 packs or 8 packs, big arms etc. Give me a normal guy any day of the week. Those others take themselves way too seriously and let the compliments go to their heads. Here in Atlanta that's the game however. If you're not a gym bunny (LAF gym bunny to be precise), drive a BMW or Mercedes and shop at exclusive shops, you're a nobody. It's sad really.
 

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I'm with you on so many levels. I was once told on an online chat line that the guy wanted to come over and fuck my man-pussy. DELETE! Don't EVEN called it that.

I'm also with you on the diet and exercise and ab bullshit. I'm not at all attracted to guys with 6 packs or 8 packs, big arms etc. Give me a normal guy any day of the week. Those others take themselves way too seriously and let the compliments go to their heads. Here in Atlanta that's the game however. If you're not a gym bunny (LAF gym bunny to be precise), drive a BMW or Mercedes and shop at exclusive shops, you're a nobody. It's sad really.

I think of a lot men with gym bodies are UGLY, and that goes for women, too.

People universalize their wants and desires - and very wrongly so. We all have a difference concept of beauty, no matter how much the media/culture says we do not.

Most women in the US/Canada dress like lesbians (unless you're in Montreal).


@ OP: You don't EVER allow a man or a woman degrade you in your masculinity like that. I would have punched his lights out.
 
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I'm with you on so many levels. I was once told on an online chat line that the guy wanted to come over and fuck my man-pussy. DELETE! Don't EVEN called it that.

I'm also with you on the diet and exercise and ab bullshit. I'm not at all attracted to guys with 6 packs or 8 packs, big arms etc. Give me a normal guy any day of the week. Those others take themselves way too seriously and let the compliments go to their heads. Here in Atlanta that's the game however. If you're not a gym bunny (LAF gym bunny to be precise), drive a BMW or Mercedes and shop at exclusive shops, you're a nobody. It's sad really.

If you think that's bad , don't come to LA. When I lived their years ago it was just starting , the whole gym , big body thing , by the time I left, 3 years ago It was out of control !
It's so crazy now ! I'm kinda of glad I left, I need a reality check :)
life in LA is a Big bubble . LA sent that whole, over the top gym culture out to the rest of the country !
It still not too bad here in the Midwest , but I see it here more in the burbs than in the city, but once the city picks up, I'm sure that culture will find it's way here.
The most we have here now are the "cool" kids, trendy, artsy , bohemian.
those are the first ones in ,then the muscle Marys move in .
Even though I'm bi I guess I was consider a muscle head, back in my day ,but I moved on !
I still workout though,it's more challenging with age :) (36):tongue:
Not bad for a old man ! /daddy LOL
 
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the guy wanted to come over and fuck my man-pussy. DELETE! Don't EVEN called it that.


Once, I fucked this really good power bottom for a couple of hours. In the heat of the session when I was about to come...I MAY HAVE uttered "I love pounding your MAN-pussy!":eek:. (The dude's sphincter gripped me and made me cum really hard in that rubber.)


He was pissed off...he was like :mad:"Dude, don't call it a man pussy..."
:mad:

:frown1:I apologized to him.:frown1: I miss that guy. He was really good.
 

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It seems not much has changed. In my younger clubbing days random strangers would either squeeze my bum or tweak my nipples in passing - I just looked at it as some kind of compliment.

Re body shapes: I think abs look good on pics or on film. However, put a sculpted guy in front of me and there is just no chemistry. Give me an ordinary/skinny/chubby guy and I find they ooze a lot more sex appeal... So one is for the fantasy, the other for real life... :wink:
 

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I have to agree, I much rather be with somebody who has a real body. Most gym bodies I have seen are too much, I want a dude who is more like me, not some muscle jock. I guess back in the day I was kinda a muscle body, but even then I prefered a real guy.
 

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I hate all of you! j/k

I've got the 6-pack (it's what I like on me), and am mostly attracted to the stockier, much hairier types.
 

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I love chubby guys cuz they are damn cute, most of them have man boobs; if you are chubby and have a sense of humor, you would be popular in a group. LMAO.
 

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I prefer the average guy, who keeps himself at a natural body weight, not thin nor over weightish
Mate i have has always had largeish breasts despite wonderful everything else, calves/thighs/COCK mmmmmm, i concentrated on the cock so we got on real well.
He really developed a complex because of them breasts tho, they eventually disappeared
Personally wouldnt be offended if a guy grasped my Tit area, nothing there anyway?
just raw macho male breast hah


if you are chubby and have a sense of humor, you would be popular in a group. LMAO.

Agree avg joe, that happy bouncy person is a real gem to be with ....
 
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quick question

whats the definition of a "real body"?

i ask this because i understand everyone prefers different body types to others, but i get annoyed by the notion of people claiming something is "real" while something else isn't... i've noticed this more with women (probably because im straight) when you see a group of fat girls talk down on a girl who is in shape saying something along the lines of "im a REAL women, with REAL curves unlike her" and everyone else just nods as if that was a profound statement... the first thing that comes to my mind when i think of that is "so just because she cares about her body and doesn't eat fast food all day, that makes her body fake? and just because her curves on on her nicely sculpted ass instead of in jelly rolls on her stomach, that makes her fake?".. it seems like the only people who say that are mad because someone else has the will and dedication to do something that is harder for the ordinary person to do (that goes from anything like a good job, keeping in shape, doing well at a hobby etc), there will always be haters

i just think because in a country where the large majority of the population has a sloppier build, people can get away with saying stuff like "i have a REAL body" or "i have REAL curves" without any challenge.. i have a feeling if someone like jillian michaels or dewayne johnson said something like "i have REAL curves, anyone who is overweight is fake" would get highly scrutinized, which they should if they said that because who is to say what a "real" body is? i just don't understand that dynamic of how people think
 

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One of the reasons I hate the bar scene so much is the whole hands on, touch anyone, sort of behavior. I really dislike people I don't know coming up to me and grabbing my crotch or ass, or rubbing my chest. In a big crowd of people, you're gonna get groped, but when I'm standing there one on one with someone.... It violates my personal space. I wouldn't mind so much if someone just asked.
 

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Thank you all for the great replies. True that the whole grabbing my breast thing made me selfcounscient, but I guess that's due to some low selfastem.
Tha real body vrs the fake one is pure envy. All bodies are real, either if they're worked out, or just chubby like mine. My mainly concern was a protective one, I felt invaded when a total stranger went straight to my breast. I didn't punch him, but let me tell you that that guy didn't do much that night with anyone else as long as I was there... JERK...
So, main conclusion from this thred, NEVER let yourself be treated lower that what you 'really' are. And most definitively, NEVER call another's dude asshole MAN PUSSY... It so doesn't do anything for me... :/