cloverleaf
Expert Member
I respect anybody's right to cover up, but in my personal view a man in a locker room who cannot drop his underwear has not identified himself as a man. It has nothing to do with his sexual identity -- the towel dancer can be straight or gay and may be a Titan in bed. But look -- if you cannot stand opposite another man and be naked to change clothes you lack the common-trust and mutuality element of gender identity. Men with fear of being naked often write how they want to get over it. They make excuses about erection concerns or how they may look. These guys appreciate they are missing something in their male identity, and I think they are right.