Dudes Suckin Dudes

[bareamigo]

Based on some of the things in recent posts, I’ve been thinking about guys suckin off other guys. I mentioned in one post something about gay guys giving head. Some of the old posts talk about str8 guys giving head. I’ve heard guys talk about some guy giving head to a buddy or roommate as a present or something, but I’d always considered that just so much B/S—but maybe not? Anyway, sounds like a good topic for my first poll here, so ‘bare’ with me on this. BTW define yourself however you feel—obviously there’s no bright line definition among the categories I’ve chosen here. For example, when I take the poll I’ll mark it as a str8 guy, even though some on this board quibble with that definition cause another dude has had my dick in his mouth.

Gabe

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

I consider myself a straight guy and the few times that I have ever done that was with straight guys who were good friends but it can make the friendship kind of weird...I mean it would happen after been really trashed and we would never mention it again...I mean I would rather do that w/a friend than a stranger...But I have had a gay guy blow me but I didnt' even have the urge to or he didn't even want me to return the favor...

 

[Pye]

at the risk of sounding 'slutty' I've had some anonymous sex-- I don't blow too often-- especially the anonymous stuff-- so I honestly don't know if the guy was "straight"-- I so I cannot answer the poll honestly

 

[Pappy]

I have had oral with straight as well as gay guys and they both have been very appreciative. I have also had anal with "straight" and Gay guys. The "straight" guys would get off more often without any manual stimulation than would the gay guys.

 

[Altairion]

Straight here (for those that don't know ) and I've never had head from a guy or given one head back. Furthest I'll prob go in my lifetime is a j/o in the same room with another guy, but that is just me.

 

[Anon]

I'm str8 and i've given head a few times to strangers, would probably do it again next time i'm on vacation.

 

[steve319]

Straight, gay, bi, quad, mini, maxi, mondo, whatever. Glad to see you acknowledge that these names only carry meaning for the person choosing to take them upon him- or herself, Gabe. Does make me think, though, of a self-defined "nonsmoker" who smokes "only occasionally." How much of this labelling is just shorthand and how much is avoidance of stigma?

I could claim that I'm, oh maybe, a dead german female film star named Marlene even though I'm male and have never been in films.

Anyway, I'm choosing to chime in (today anyway) as straight(-ish). Never gone oral with another man it but am certainly not ruling it out. You never know what life holds in store, right?

I do hesitate over the idea of risking screwing up an established male friendship with sex. Not had good luck with mixing sex and friendship in the past.

 

[txquis]

The straight guys i know dont give head.....
DAMMIT

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

Originally posted by steve319@Jul 20 2005, 10:26 AM
I do hesitate over the idea of risking screwing up an established male friendship with sex. Not had good luck with mixing sex and friendship in the past.

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Totally agree w/you here...But usually those are the only guys I would feel comfortable doing that with, hence why my hookups w/guys is so little...But I have lost a friend over it...Once one of my friends who identified himself as straight and granted I kind of figured out that he might like guys too but wasn't 100% sure because we had discussions and he denied it...One night after we got drunk and our discussions kind of turned into what women thought of us in bed, somewho we decided to compare dicks and one thing lead to another and we ended up blowing each other and that is as far as it went...He seemed to enjoy it while we were doing it but afterwards I think he got freaked out about what he had just did...I tried to talk to him about but he just wanted to blame it on the alcohol and not talk about it again...He did I know I am not gay thing but admitted that this happened once before w/a guy he thought was a girl...Needless to say he started to try to become really religous and moved away w/o telling anyone...So I do believe if you do that w/a friend, you two both should really be into it and know the consciences...

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

I don't mind labelling myself: I'm gay. I have no sexual interest in women ... period. That doesn't mean that I don't respect women or that I don't have women friends. Just wanted to make that clear.

Now about blowing straight dudes: yeah, I've done it ... often. A lot of queens would love to scratch my eyeballs because they have this sweet tooth for straight men, but I'm the one who ends up bedding them. The strange thing is that I don't seek them out. The fact that a man is straight holds no attraction for me. But I have come to realise why the straight men approach me because enough of them have told me the reason. I'm a 'regular guy' in their eyes. If they're curious enough to try sex with another man, they want it to be with someone who acts like a man. I've known men who say they've been curious to see what all the shouting's about, but the gay men who came on to them were effeminate, and that turned them off. One said that any man who acted like a woman struck him as a mockery of manhood, and there's no way he could bring himself to 'explore' with what he views as a freak of nature. They see me as a masculine guy, more of an equal. This works out to my advantage sexually because they are more often than not willing to reciprocate. The rationale is, "sucking cock obviously doesn't make him less manly, so I can try it without compromising my masculinity as well."I like what one of my straight high school buds said: "It was cool: we could suck each other's cock, then kick back with a beer and watch football together." However, he was like the majority of straight sexual partners I've had: it was a one-time thing. Their curiosity fulfilled, that return to boning chicks and never look back. We did remain friends, though.

 

[simba]

I'm straight. Only sucked off two guys in my lifetime. But sucked them off many times. There are/were straight too so it stayed between us and no one else knew about it. It was cool. I'd probably do it again, but probably with only one of those two guys.

 

[Pecker]

I've never been a guy to suck dick,
And I never hope to be one.
But I can tell you really quick,
It would be quite a thrill to see one.

 

[B_KeraAndMike]

Living in LA Ive been told I should do porn a lot. And asked to do gay porn by quite a few guys. Have had offers to be sucked by a guy (and other things) but never took any of em up on it.

 

[dcwrestlefan]

dmw brings up something i found to be very true also. straight guys just looking to experiment or get off once are not interested in someone who is gonna come over and "queen it up".

haven't been there in awhile, but finding a straight/married guy in an AOL chat room who wanted head was like finding dirt in a gas station restroom.

 

[jonb]

Never done it. But yeah, a regular guy like Jacinto is actually, what's that word?, hot. It's probably just knowing he can be COMPLETELY gay and not act like Jack from Will & Grace, so my experimentation doesn't make me like Jack.

 

[Altairion]

Yea, Jacinto probably hit it right on. I know it's mostly irrational, but the mere concept of getting head from a queen has distinct differences when compared to the concept of getting head from a more straight-acting gay guy. Of course his apparently numerous experiences with straight guys probably give him just a few insights into the area

 

[jdoe86]

Why are "straight" guys so afraid of the word bisexual? It doesn't make any sense. If they enjoy giving or receiving oral with another guy, that is bisexual. Okay, there are going to be some of you who are going to ring in here and say I'm adding labels and stuff. If you have any type of sexual relations with another person of the same sex while having sexual relations with a person of the opposite sex, that is BISEXUALITY!

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

This is true if I had to say it I guess I am bi-sexual but in my day to day life I feel straight...I really hate labels and I do not announce or even say I am straight...

 

[prepstudinsc]

Labels only box a person in. Sexuality is an ever fluxuating continuum, and when one says straight, bi or gay, it seems to lock someone in. We are all sexual beings and I think we should just leave it at that. I've experimented with guys before and it was no big deal. I can't see myself ever having a serious relationship with one, nor did I like the couple of times I sucked a dick. However, I have to admit guys do give better head. I don't mind kissing a guy and the feeling of doing it is very raw and intensely sexual compared to the tender sweetness that it is when you kiss a girl. The stylistic change is sort of hot. Why do the labels have to put us into a certain category because we might enjoy an occasional change of pace?

 

[Lex]

Labels do suck.
Some days I feel more "striaght" and some days I guess I feel more "gay"--
That is to say, that some days I feel more attratced to women, others to men.

Through it all, I alwasy feel like a MAN.