Originally posted by prepstudinsc@Jul 23 2005, 02:35 PM
Labels only box a person in. Sexuality is an ever fluxuating continuum, and when one says straight, bi or gay, it seems to lock someone in. We are all sexual beings and I think we should just leave it at that. I've experimented with guys before and it was no big deal. I can't see myself ever having a serious relationship with one, nor did I like the couple of times I sucked a dick. However, I have to admit guys do give better head. I don't mind kissing a guy and the feeling of doing it is very raw and intensely sexual compared to the tender sweetness that it is when you kiss a girl. The stylistic change is sort of hot. Why do the labels have to put us into a certain category because we might enjoy an occasional change of pace?
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Originally posted by geo8x6@Jul 24 2005, 03:50 AM
What get's me is the "straight" guys who say they are straight, but want to suck your cock or get fucked up the ass. I just hate the hypocrisy of it. I've meet up with more than my share of "straight" guys who just want me to bend them over and pound their asses then turn around and put down gays. What do you think we were just doing for the last few hours? My cock in your mouth or up your butt doesn't count?
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What a great way to say it, Monty. Outstanding.Originally posted by prepstudinsc@Jul 23 2005, 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by steve319@Jul 24 2005, 10:12 AM
I think there's a thin line between embracing a label to acknowledge something about oneself and doing so to avoid unwanted associations. I know titles and labels are necessary shorthand for communication, but those related to sexual behavior/orientation are so loaded with misplaced "moral" implications that they end up doing damage sometimes, don't you think?
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Originally posted by steve319@Jul 24 2005, 10:44 AM
I wonder, though, at the implications and the lessons that young gay men learn (the "hidden curriculum" ) from seeing so many men run from the "gay" or "bi" label--hence the anger toward the hypocrisy of "straight" men who love gay sex. All the pleasure, none of the guilt.
But that's the challenge, isn't it? How can people, especially straight guys as mentioned here, (1) enjoy these sexual experiences for what they are worth and really get into them, and (2) to do so in a way that doesn't require denial. Geo puts an added spin on it by mentioning that these same fuck buddies will degrade their male partners and/or their orientation just as impulsively as they did the action(s) summarized in (1).Originally posted by geo8x6@Jul 24 2005, 03:50 AM
What get's me is the "straight" guys who say they are straight, but want to suck your cock or get fucked up the ass. I just hate the hypocrisy of it. I've meet up with more than my share of "straight" guys who just want me to bend them over and pound their asses then turn around and put down gays. What do you think we were just doing for the last few hours? My cock in your mouth or up your butt doesn't count?
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And where will you be going on vacation this year?Originally posted by Anon@Jul 20 2005, 01:46 AM
I'm str8 and i've given head a few times to strangers, would probably do it again next time i'm on vacation.
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