Dudes Suckin Dudes

[Kimahri]

I've had oral with both straight and gay. They seemed pleased. Prefer the straight dudes though. They are more about business.

Straight and gay are such black and white constructs. Sexuality is more fluid than that. Labels, bah.

 

[Shelby]

I'm straight and suck cock all the time. But never after they've been in my ass unless I wash them first.

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by Shelby@Jul 28 2005, 07:23 PM
I'm straight and suck cock all the time. But never after they've been in my ass unless I wash them first.

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And then put a codomn on as a barrier............because once it touches your skin it'll make you gay..... :+

 

[jonb]

I thought just seeing another man's penis made you gay. Hell, even going down on a woman makes you gay. And anything other than two pumps and you cum makes you gay.

 

[KinkGuy]

These days, locker rooms, porn, ALL other men, nudity, being seen taking a piss, and a plethora of other "situations" will also make you queer. So if everything makes you gay, why are homo's still less than (at most) 10% of the population? Come on, I need the resources!!!!!!!!!!! :hi:

 

[steve319]

I say we go ahead, then, and make everyone gay and restart from there. If all it takes is to spot another man's cock, then that should be pretty easy to fix. Gentlemen, begin Operation Exhibition!

Then once everyone is gay, things might settle a bit. If we all could acknowledge and embrace the same title for just a little while before branching out and drawing lines again, maybe we could do it better this time.

Or maybe not.

Maybe labels are OK as long as we reserve the right to change them when we like. And that everyone else must accept that change.

Labels like straight, gay, and bi are odd in the first place. What are they intended to describe anyway? Degrees of attraction? The ratio of past behaviors? The pretense or facade we wish to present? Another problem with "loaded" labels like these is that we have to take on all of the unwanted (and often unwarranted) baggage that comes along with them.

I mean, in general, I'm proud to be a man but, given the insanity and horror my gender often perpetrates, sometimes I feel a bit of shame over it. (Am I hearing a general trend in this topic of distaste for more effemenate gay men?) But, of course, being labelled a "man" is a description of biological conditions, so that's hardly the same thing.

Then again, there are transgender folks and biological hermaphrodites...

Did someone say this was simple?

 

[nineboxer]

Originally posted by bareamigo@Jul 19 2005, 10:37 PM
Based on some of the things in recent posts, I’ve been thinking about guys suckin off other guys. I mentioned in one post something about gay guys giving head. Some of the old posts talk about str8 guys giving head. I’ve heard guys talk about some guy giving head to a buddy or roommate as a present or something, but I’d always considered that just so much B/S—but maybe not? Anyway, sounds like a good topic for my first poll here, so ‘bare’ with me on this. BTW define yourself however you feel—obviously there’s no bright line definition among the categories I’ve chosen here. For example, when I take the poll I’ll mark it as a str8 guy, even though some on this board quibble with that definition cause another dude has had my dick in his mouth.

Gabe

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Maybe it can make the friendship kinda weird and maybe it can be a bonding kind of experience.

Glad that ive had more of the latter.
Nineboxer

 

[nineboxer]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Jul 20 2005, 01:08 PM
I don't mind labelling myself: I'm gay. I have no sexual interest in women ... period. That doesn't mean that I don't respect women or that I don't have women friends. Just wanted to make that clear.

Now about blowing straight dudes: yeah, I've done it ... often. A lot of queens would love to scratch my eyeballs because they have this sweet tooth for straight men, but I'm the one who ends up bedding them. The strange thing is that I don't seek them out. The fact that a man is straight holds no attraction for me. But I have come to realise why the straight men approach me because enough of them have told me the reason. I'm a 'regular guy' in their eyes. If they're curious enough to try sex with another man, they want it to be with someone who acts like a man. I've known men who say they've been curious to see what all the shouting's about, but the gay men who came on to them were effeminate, and that turned them off. One said that any man who acted like a woman struck him as a mockery of manhood, and there's no way he could bring himself to 'explore' with what he views as a freak of nature. They see me as a masculine guy, more of an equal. This works out to my advantage sexually because they are more often than not willing to reciprocate. The rationale is, "sucking cock obviously doesn't make him less manly, so I can try it without compromising my masculinity as well."I like what one of my straight high school buds said: "It was cool: we could suck each other's cock, then kick back with a beer and watch football together." However, he was like the majority of straight sexual partners I've had: it was a one-time thing. Their curiosity fulfilled, that return to boning chicks and never look back. We did remain friends, though.

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Yeah - Isnt that what homosexuality is, MEN having sex with MEN. Never could understand why some guys dont get that. If I want sex with a man, I want sex with a MAN.

 

[Sabln7]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Jul 20 2005, 06:08 PM
I don't mind labelling myself: I'm gay. I have no sexual interest in women ... period. That doesn't mean that I don't respect women or that I don't have women friends. Just wanted to make that clear.

Now about blowing straight dudes: yeah, I've done it ... often. A lot of queens would love to scratch my eyeballs because they have this sweet tooth for straight men, but I'm the one who ends up bedding them. The strange thing is that I don't seek them out. The fact that a man is straight holds no attraction for me. But I have come to realise why the straight men approach me because enough of them have told me the reason. I'm a 'regular guy' in their eyes. If they're curious enough to try sex with another man, they want it to be with someone who acts like a man. I've known men who say they've been curious to see what all the shouting's about, but the gay men who came on to them were effeminate, and that turned them off. One said that any man who acted like a woman struck him as a mockery of manhood, and there's no way he could bring himself to 'explore' with what he views as a freak of nature. They see me as a masculine guy, more of an equal. This works out to my advantage sexually because they are more often than not willing to reciprocate. The rationale is, "sucking cock obviously doesn't make him less manly, so I can try it without compromising my masculinity as well."I like what one of my straight high school buds said: "It was cool: we could suck each other's cock, then kick back with a beer and watch football together." However, he was like the majority of straight sexual partners I've had: it was a one-time thing. Their curiosity fulfilled, that return to boning chicks and never look back. We did remain friends, though.

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I too have sucked straight guys. My experiences mirror what you have written 100%. Guys usually want to try it, but they want a masculine guy. More than one has told me that they would not let effeminate guys do them because, "If want a woman to do it, I will get a woman."

 

[viking]

Originally posted by bdsb458@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I'm envious. I've always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends. How can I make that happen to me? Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

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There's always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by ebviking+Aug 9 2005, 02:55 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ebviking &#064; Aug 9 2005, 02:55 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-bdsb458@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I&#39;m envious.  I&#39;ve always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends.  How can I make that happen to me?  Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

[post=333990]Quoted post[/post]​

There&#39;s always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

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[/b][/quote]

Hey, Steve, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know&#33;

 

[viking]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Aug 9 2005, 12:14 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Aug 9 2005, 12:14 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by ebviking@Aug 9 2005, 02:55 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-bdsb458

@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I&#39;m envious.  I&#39;ve always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends.  How can I make that happen to me?  Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

[post=333990]Quoted post[/post]​

There&#39;s always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

[post=334033]Quoted post[/post]​

Hey, Steve, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know&#33;

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Works for me you sexy bitch&#33;

 

[bdsb458]

Originally posted by ebviking+Aug 9 2005, 12:55 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ebviking &#064; Aug 9 2005, 12:55 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-bdsb458@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I&#39;m envious.  I&#39;ve always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends.  How can I make that happen to me?  Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

[post=333990]Quoted post[/post]​

There&#39;s always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

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[/b][/quote]

Yeah I think that might made them a little uncomfortable if they didn&#39;t want to let me.

 

[viking]

Originally posted by bdsb458+Aug 9 2005, 12:21 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(bdsb458 &#064; Aug 9 2005, 12:21 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by ebviking@Aug 9 2005, 12:55 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-bdsb458

@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I&#39;m envious.  I&#39;ve always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends.  How can I make that happen to me?  Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

[post=333990]Quoted post[/post]​

There&#39;s always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

[post=334033]Quoted post[/post]​

Yeah I think that might made them a little uncomfortable if they didn&#39;t want to let me.

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[/b][/quote]

Well, someone might get anxious about it when you first say it, but why not be honest about it.
If your friends know you like sucking cock, maybe they will want to take you up on it.

There&#39;s nothing wrong with a little sexual tension.
It gets your heart pumping and gets you thinking about the possibilities.

If they really are not interested, they&#39;ll forget about it.
Don&#39;t be surprised if they say " Hey , remember when you said..."
"Did you really mean that?"

 

[viking]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Aug 9 2005, 12:14 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Aug 9 2005, 12:14 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by ebviking@Aug 9 2005, 02:55 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-bdsb458

@Aug 9 2005, 08:39 AM
Wow, I&#39;m envious.  I&#39;ve always wished I could give head to some of my straight friends.  How can I make that happen to me?  Could you give me examples of how it happened or what I can do to get in that situation?

[post=333990]Quoted post[/post]​

There&#39;s always the direct approach.
"Hey, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know."

[post=334033]Quoted post[/post]​

Hey, Steve, if you ever want me to suck that cock for ya, just let me know&#33;

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[/b][/quote]

Hey, Jacinto, when&#39;s your next trip to San Francisco?

 

[B_RoysToy]

Steve and Jacinto playing in the grass,
Jacinto sucking Steve and planning to fuck his ass.

 

[Onslow]

Well he swore up and down he was straight but insisted on giving me oral and the clincher was not just that he swallowed but that he wanted to do it again and for over a year he kept offering to repeat the event. I don&#39;t get off that much from another person giving me a b/j so I usually declined but there were a few more incidents and then I got the old heave-ho from the job I was at and I moved to a new and exciting city. This goes back a few years and maybe he was straight and just trying something new that his girlfriend couldn&#39;t give him. Who knows, it&#39;s his stuff to deal with not mine, I mainly did it because he was sexy as all get up and besides he would always buy me some good booze (yeah I was a whore for a good bottle of gin).

 

[viking]

Originally posted by RoysToy@Aug 9 2005, 01:20 PM
Steve and Jacinto playing in the grass,
Jacinto sucking Steve and planning to fuck his ass.

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What is that they say about best layed plans??

The best laid schemes o&#39; mice and men gang aft a-gley.
Robert Burns

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by RoysToy

Steve and Jacinto playing in the grass,
Jacinto sucking Steve and planning to fuck his ass.

What is that they say about best layed plans??

The best laid schemes o&#39; mice and men gang aft a-gley.
Robert Burns

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I thought it was &#39;a-gay&#39;. More appropriate in this case, anyway&#33;

 

[blackwood]

Steve and Jacinto playing in the grass,
Jacinto sucking Steve and planning to fuck his ass.

What is that they say about best layed plans??

The best laid schemes o&#39; mice and men gang aft a-gley.
Robert Burns

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I thought it was &#39;a-gay&#39;. More appropriate in this case, anyway&#33;

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Interesting to see so many folks open to casting labels aside. I have always liked sex, and basically all sex acts....Why shouldn&#39;t I? Why should ya all?

Leave the label on the condom box..........Keep it legal.

blackwood