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I notice there are dudes who are on dating websites or whatever who immediately start asking for nudes and what not. When I don't send them, they disappear. No matter how much time we've spent getting to know each other. I have come to realize these are probably men either collecting photos or have no gumption to ever meet up face to face to get the personal invite. These guys are local. I can see why dudes would ask. But are there guys out there who really just hit women up for nudes after lengthy conversation that get butthurt when I won't send them? Are they intimidated to meet a person face to face? I have plenty of social media content where they see me from all angles to know I'm not fooling them or using filters. What they see is what they get. I've had several guys stop talking as soon as they find out I don't snap chat.

What's this all about? Is there a way to screen these dudes out before wasting both of our time? I always put in my profiles I don't send lewds so don't ask.
 
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I used to have a profile and my picture was literally my hand on the camera. It was terrible hard to get a conversation with a woman I almost got a face to face meeting once but since she was from another city it was like too much effort and eventually we lost interest. Concluded that was waste of time.

As for the guys who ask you nudes I rather think a way to check you are a woman (they think) because the fake females profile ask for dick pictures in exchange for a internet pictures of the supposed woman owner. For an instant men that’s it he waked an it’s happy he got a virtual girlfriend.
Some people use pictures for extortion or to feed “amateur” pages.
Perhaps they lied on his profile and they are not so whatever they show on his profile so they won’t meet in real life.

I think shy guys will be intimidated to meet in person but I think eventually you will get them on real life.

How to screen the send nudes? Hard one. I would pick a real life where I don’t normally go (in case of stalker) and make the idea of a future encounter o one that has happened: aren’t you the vegetables guy of Walmart?
When the send nude questions comes you can go better meet on Wallmart veg boy.
 
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So it's like some kind of virtual hymen check to make sure I'm an actual woman? If I doubted a dude was a dude I'd screen him out with good questions. If a guy doubted a woman was real he could be an intriguing gentleman and skip asking for lewds and ask *do you prefer pads or tampons? And why?* and watch hearts form in her eyes...
 
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I used to have a profile and my picture was literally my hand on the camera. It was terrible hard to get a conversation with a woman I almost got a face to face meeting once but since she was from another city it was like too much effort and eventually we lost interest. Concluded that was waste of time.

As for the guys who ask you nudes I rather think a way to check you are a woman (they think) because the fake females profile ask for dick pictures in exchange for a internet pictures of the supposed woman owner. For an instant men that’s it he waked an it’s happy he got a virtual girlfriend.
Some people use pictures for extortion or to feed “amateur” pages.
Perhaps they lied on his profile and they are not so whatever they show on his profile so they won’t meet in real life.

I think shy guys will be intimidated to meet in person but I think eventually you will get them on real life.

How to screen the send nudes? Hard one. I would pick a real life where I don’t normally go (in case of stalker) and make the idea of a future encounter o one that has happened: aren’t you the vegetables guy of Walmart?
When the send nude questions comes you can go better meet on Wallmart veg boy.

You pretty much summed it all up.
 

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So it's like some kind of virtual hymen check to make sure I'm an actual woman? If I doubted a dude was a dude I'd screen him out with good questions. If a guy doubted a woman was real he could be an intriguing gentleman and skip asking for lewds and ask *do you prefer pads or tampons? And why?* and watch hearts form in her eyes...
Totally, on the time of yahoo it was also crawled with bots so I would start with What are you breathing?
Interesting responses and bots away.
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You could Snapchat like this half won’t tell the difference.
 

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Totally, on the time of yahoo it was also crawled with bots so I would start with What are you breathing?
Interesting responses and bots away.
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You could Snapchat like this half won’t tell the difference.

I could snapchat and show them what I dont want to show that particular person at that juncture to prove I'm not a bot? Is that what you're telling me, sir? Because these dudes have been fooled, even though we met in person already some of them who found me while I was out and about. They see my social media, they get voice clip correspondence and all the tons of photos videos that I crank out daily just arent enough proof. I still need to give them a birds eye view of my tattered hymen to prove I'm not a male or a scam? Nudes are the only way to prove I'm real? I mean what if I'm a dude who kyped the nudes from someone on the webs? Your theory holds no water other than a dude wants a boner in the moment.
 
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I can't digest how easily some ppl ask for nudes. I never asked for nudes. I am probably too shy. I think it is impolite to ask for nudes from a person you don't know/have a relationship.

That being said, if I were to ask for a nude, the reasons would be simple (pardon my rudeness): I want to check the "goods" I am dealing with or I want something to use later to please myself. The second reason is less likely to happen, so I would guess you are dealing with the first one. With the Internet you can talk with a large number of people simultaneously, so these guys are probably talking to many women at once, asking for nudes straightforward and then they choose those they want to "invest". If they didn't choose you, they just ignore you.
 
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I can't digest how easily some ppl ask for nudes. I never asked for nudes. I am probably too shy. I think it is impolite to ask for nudes from a person you don't know/have a relationship.

That being said, if I were to ask for a nude, the reasons would be simple (pardon my rudeness): I want to check the "goods" I am dealing with or I want something to use later to please myself. The second reason is less likely to happen, so I would guess you are dealing with the first one. With the Internet you can talk with a large number of people simultaneously, so these guys are probably talking to many women at once, asking for nudes straightforward and then they choose those they want to "invest". If they didn't choose you, they just ignore you.

Like a poster already talked about, it's harvesting. It's so freaking bad these days. It's an addiction, it has to be. These guys relentlessly pursue people just to collect pics they will never look at again, or to showcase on some message board or Tumblr or Twitter.
 

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The funny thing is, I'd rather a dude like that disappear than to waste more of my time. It's his loss. I dont ask for dick pics to see what I'm working with. Chances are based on what I've heard many times is that it actually looks far better than what they had pictured when they get the personal invite. If a dude needs to look under the hood when he is riding passenger, he can get out of the car and take a walk. His loss. Plenty of dudes who dont do this to choose from. Just curious how to weed them out at the pass was at this post was about.

Sounds like more entitlement attitude from horny dudes to me. They can fuck their right hand instead and if they dont like that option then they have a left hand. Some other winner will get the prize.
 

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I could snapchat and show them what I dont want to show that particular person at that juncture to prove I'm not a bot? Is that what you're telling me, sir? Because these dudes have been fooled, even though we met in person already some of them who found me while I was out and about. They see my social media, they get voice clip correspondence and all the tons of photos videos that I crank out daily just arent enough proof. I still need to give them a birds eye view of my tattered hymen to prove I'm not a male or a scam? Nudes are the only way to prove I'm real? I mean what if I'm a dude who kyped the nudes from someone on the webs? Your theory holds no water other than a dude wants a boner in the moment.
Actually it was more a humorous comment than a useful one since you said you don’t do Snapchat.
But that brought me to another group people that has nothing to do in life and invest tons of efforts on doing things for unknown reasons.
If they disappear it’s better, they could disappear after the sending nudes.
Thinking about it could be also underage so won’t meet on real life.
I can tell you are a woman for the way you write no ask pic needed.

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Actually it was more a humorous comment than a useful one since you said you don’t do Snapchat.
But that brought me to another group people that has nothing to do in life and invest tons of efforts on doing things for unknown reasons.
If they disappear it’s better, they could disappear after the sending nudes.
Thinking about it could be also underage so won’t meet on real life.
I can tell you are a woman for the way you write no ask pic needed.

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It’s actually from the pelican brief.
But dowton abbey it’s better for sleeping. Carson!

I havent seen that movie since it came out. I missed the entire last season of DA...that means I could have been getting great sleep.
 
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asking right away is odd I think but asking in general I don't find to be too odd especially if the conversation has indicated any potential at all for a hook up
as a seprate but potetially similar issue I have had women swear up and down that they want to have sex with me, but they don't want to talk on the phone first....I'm like so let me get this straight I'm going to see you naked and put my dick in you but I can't hear your voice? to me that always seems odd, I get that people might not want to give out thier number if tey want a true like one time thing but I even offered to pay for the burner phone before just to hear their voice before we meet and when they are against it I mean....lil strange....like how do you plan to TALK about how we are going to meet etc if we don't TALK lol
 
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I don't ask for nude photos when I do talk to a woman. I rather meet you face to face, and date you for a bit. I still want to see boobs, I'm not going to lie. If you are going to show them to me, it's most likely a situation where I get to touch them too.
 

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So a few things working against you which will make any screening process impossible...
1st there are men out there just seeking to add more files to their spank bank.
2nd some men are impatient and are seeking some sort of sexual satiation immediately
3rd low self esteem... some men figure even after your initial interest, it's only a matter of time before you move on to some better option, so get while the getting is good?
4th trans or homo anxiety, also figuring into the self esteem category, a lot of men figure no interest in them is the norm, so any interest must be some sort of trick.
 
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I never ask for nudes from a gal. And I never send them. I’m more interested in the woman herself. I’ve learned a long time ago that if I want a girl for long term it’s in the conversation. Energy and intelligence is what counts in the long run. Once I’ve dated a gal we invariably end up sending nudes pics back and forth to tease each other. If a gal wants to post nude pics of herself I will comment on them but I never asked for them or sent unsolicited dick pics to them.
 

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I don't online date at all but i have noticed more than a few things. So this will be an addon just in case no one else said it but there are guys out there who only want women's pictures. To catfish others and to what's generally called..karma whore on other sites. Don't know..just figured i should say.
 

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I notice there are dudes who are on dating websites or whatever who immediately start asking for nudes and what not. When I don't send them, they disappear. No matter how much time we've spent getting to know each other. I have come to realize these are probably men either collecting photos or have no gumption to ever meet up face to face to get the personal invite. These guys are local. I can see why dudes would ask. But are there guys out there who really just hit women up for nudes after lengthy conversation that get butthurt when I won't send them? Are they intimidated to meet a person face to face? I have plenty of social media content where they see me from all angles to know I'm not fooling them or using filters. What they see is what they get. I've had several guys stop talking as soon as they find out I don't snap chat.

What's this all about? Is there a way to screen these dudes out before wasting both of our time? I always put in my profiles I don't send lewds so don't ask.

Not something I've ever been interested in doing, sometimes partners will take pictures with me/short videos of our encounters for prosperity but collecting random nudes doesn't interest me in the slightest.