Just met this young guy recently and we have been flirting outrageously. A question I've always had that I've never asked before: How do guys successfully (at least some of the time) lose an erection quickly? I've noticed that this under 30 y.o. guy can usually lose his erection after 1-2 minutes. For example, we'll flirt a bit discreetly somewhere and he'll end up with a prominent hardon. But when he comes back into the next room or something spare moments later, his erection is gone. Meanwhile I know that some guys can't get rid of all their hardons, but just wondering what are the things guys try to do when they need to appear flaccid. Just wondering.