OK heres the facts of the situation. In 1 month we have had 3 dates. We have engaged in heavy make out sessions, mutial masterbation to compleation and oral sex. We have seen each other naked goes without saying, and slept in the same bed. Dispite him being a sweet guy carring and compassionate I have decided to end it with him before things get too involved. Hes not out all the way due to his religion he feels he needs to hide it some what. That would leave me in the role of his shameful dirty little secret. I do not want that role in a relationship. My roomie told me that I should do it with a phone call or even worst just not talk to him again when I said I was going to break it off when I see him tomorrow. His point is that its not serious and would be less painful over the phone or to just drop communication. I would not want to be dumped like that and I have a level of integrity that makes me want to be respectful and talk to him face to face. What do I owe him? That is my question.