Dumping someone for things beyond their control

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you highlighted physical characteristics.
now, why is it wrong to discontinue a relationship if something about their body means that you just don't feel as attracted to them as you need to be in order for it to work out?

It's not. But if that's the case, I wonder why someone would even start.
 

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Ignoring the sex drive too low response for the moment, have you ever started dating someone, and then broke things off with them, over something that was completely beyond their control? (woman having too much body hair, guy being too short, etc)?

Did you know it going into the relationship and just thought you'd get past it (but couldn't)?

Sure have. I'm not sure why this would be objectionable to any disinterested party. People are attracted to what they're attracted to, and you're not doing a person any favours by staying with them when you aren't into them (for whatever reason).
 

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what if you're a vegan, and ya mate suddenly goes all "i only eat puppies and baby squirrels"

dietary habits totally a legit reason to break-up.

for true? life is too short to be unhappy, or to make someone else unhappy. breaking up isn't a capital crime, is just one of those things everyone goes through.

LOL!! and x2