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A recent thread angered me. In it the woman told the guy he could fuck around and what she doesn't see won't hurt her.
In general the response was, don't do it man or you'll be fucked and not in a good way.
What is it with women saying one thing and doing or thinking another?
Please do not take this as an attack on any of you women reading this or an attack on any man's significant other, they are my observations.
Women play games.
I don't understand the rules.
I don't understand the reason behind it. If you want something, ask for it. If you need something, ask for it. If something upsets you, say it. Don't act one way and feel another.
I don't know if a woman feels like her true feelings won't be respected, I have no idea.
In this thread someone said, "you passed the test". Test? What is it , the 1st grade? If a person feels they have to "test" the other, then why are they together?
I was a tomboy growing up. I couldn't deal with the female cattiness. Guys were much more fun to hang around with. If you were pissed off about something, you fought, then it was over and done with.
Women are supposed to be the better communicators in our human species. Isn't that what research says? How we run on more on an emotional intimacy than men do? I don't understand how intimacy can happen when there are all these tests and games in the middle.
Rant over.:smile:
In general the response was, don't do it man or you'll be fucked and not in a good way.
What is it with women saying one thing and doing or thinking another?
Women play games.
I don't understand the rules.
I don't understand the reason behind it. If you want something, ask for it. If you need something, ask for it. If something upsets you, say it. Don't act one way and feel another.
I don't know if a woman feels like her true feelings won't be respected, I have no idea.
In this thread someone said, "you passed the test". Test? What is it , the 1st grade? If a person feels they have to "test" the other, then why are they together?
I was a tomboy growing up. I couldn't deal with the female cattiness. Guys were much more fun to hang around with. If you were pissed off about something, you fought, then it was over and done with.
Women are supposed to be the better communicators in our human species. Isn't that what research says? How we run on more on an emotional intimacy than men do? I don't understand how intimacy can happen when there are all these tests and games in the middle.
Rant over.:smile: