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I don't normally keep track of time, but I'd say average time for actual intercourse is probably 30 min.-45 min. Before I cum the first time, and then 45 min - 1hr the second time. I have fucked for almost 2 hours but my partner had to have extra lube about every 30 minutes and she was very sore the next day so I try to keep it shorter.

Well I've rarely fucked for 65 minutes, much less 2 hours. Sounds like you have the greatest partner, because most started getting ansy after maybe 40-45 minutes with me. Forced me to re-think my approach. Apparently most women, well ones I've been with, don't like marathon sessions all the time.
 

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Well I've rarely fucked for 65 minutes, much less 2 hours. Sounds like you have the greatest partner, because most started getting ansy after maybe 40-45 minutes with me. Forced me to re-think my approach. Apparently most women, well ones I've been with, don't like marathon sessions all the time.

Well, it's harder to have sex a long time if you have a large penis, because I get sore. At least, that's the way it is for me.
 

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if we are talking about penetration only, I'm not sure. But it all goes for an hour, hour and a half. But, my husband took a while before he started meds. Now, he can go hours. I get wore out so I don't like much more than an hour.
 
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Well, it's harder to have sex a long time if you have a large penis, because I get sore. At least, that's the way it is for me.

Same with my wife, and I also get sore as well (the skin of my penis gets worn away if we last too long).
 

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I was listening to this human sexuality talk show on satellite radio the other day, and this girl was lamenting the amount of time (15-20 minutes) that her boyfriend pounded her before finally cumming. The host therapist was saying it's a popular notion that guys get from porn videos that women like to be fucked for long periods of time, or that it makes them look more "manly" if they can do it. In fact, the host was saying, past a certain point, many women really don't like it, and seemed to suggest that most of the time, anything much past 5 minutes was just too much of a good thing.

So, the question to women on here: For what length of time, and assuming you like/love the guy and he knows what he's doing, do you enjoy sex, and at what point does it become "geezzz, can we finish already?" or boring or annoying or painful? I'm only talking about penetrative sex, not the total lovemaking experience including foreplay, etc.

The answer to this question is rather simple: the time to stop is right when your girl has reached her final orgasm.

I always try to do it like this. Bring her to orgasm, then very quickly cum yourself. Don't spend minutes pounding after she's had a climax, because the girl will be very sensitive and might not even want to be touched. So once *she's* had it, be quick to finish your own.
 

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"They" say it's the quality, not the quantity that counts.

I totally disagree with that statement. My wife and I are halfway through a weekend marathon fuckfest (Sunday morning) and we still can't get enough of each other. We're both sore as hell, but when the endorphins kick in, there is no pain, just heat.

A lot of heat.

It's a Catch-22 that I've blown my wad already. I probably won't ejaculate/orgasm again until tomorrow, but I can keep my cock hard as long as we keep stroking it.
 

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It's a Catch-22 that I've blown my wad already. I probably won't ejaculate/orgasm again until tomorrow, but I can keep my cock hard as long as we keep stroking it.

Sounds like a lovely Sunday, RawDog! I had 3 O's, self-inflicted of course. Did you count how many your wife had? :cool: No doubt twice as many, and then some!
 

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We had to cut the festivities short today. Since we went at it pretty hard last night before going to bed (for a little over an hour and 15 minutes) and we went twice before that at about a couple hours each, she woke this morning with one sore pussy. All through the day she'd get these spasms in her vagina.

We fucked only about 45 minutes this morning and very very gently for about 30 minutes tonight.

Did you count how many your wife had? :cool: No doubt twice as many, and then some!

We try counting for the hell of it, but we almost always lose count. I'd say our typical 45 minute romp yields about 10 to 15 orgasms.
 

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Certainly I can see why you wouldn't want a guy who just blows and is done, but I have afuck buddy who I LOVE having sex with! He usually only takes 5-10 minutes to cum whether it's oral or anal. BUT, he's ready to go again within minutes, and can go over and over again all night.

We've literally had sex for up to 8 hours at a time and I'd take that any day of the week over someone who cums once but takes 20 minutes to do it.
 

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Similar to RawDog - I usually cum within 10-15mins the first time, but stay hard afterwards. I can't usually cum again for a while, at least half an hour, but that has some advantages too if we go for "round 2" or more :) Cumming twice in one "marathon" is the most I can do - I've never been able to cum a third time, but we don't go beyond 2hrs in any one "session" usually. One day, we might try the whole Sunday shagfest like you, Chaotica ;)
 

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I dont think I ever keep track of time...I do love to have sex for as long as we can :)

I love long sessions when you lose track of time altogether. Get home after a party and start going at it around midnight. Next thing you know it's 3am and it feels like you're just getting started.
 

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I love long sessions when you lose track of time altogether. Get home after a party and start going at it around midnight. Next thing you know it's 3am and it feels like you're just getting started.

That's marathon sex in a nutshell...and exactly what we're talking about.
 

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That's RawDog & his wife who have the Sunday shagfest.

Ideally we start Friday after work and go at it until Sunday evening, taking breaks for eating, sleeping, recharging (damned refractory period). We call it our weekend fuckfest.

We've developed a code when she calls me at work and asks what I want to do this weekend. My response is, "I'd like to stay in".

It's only a 17 hr drive, I'll show up on their doorstep next Sunday morning. Knock knock!!:eek:

You'd have to leave Thursday if you want to be here for the opening festivities. :smile:

Just promise me to call when you're 5 minutes away so I can set up the tripod, camcorder and sex-swing.