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Well, that may be true, but still not even near the point I was making. Even the puritanical western types claim it is an offense to god, for either gender to show too much. But these guys who claim to be so strong in their faith, so strong in general, but acknowledge that they would be completely unable to keep from raping any woman who accidentally shows a lock of hair... really absurd.
No, I got your point it's just that there is no real life foundation to the belief than men will become incited to sexual abuse merely by seeing skin. In that sense it's just a smokescreen for the suppression of women, or men when taken logically. It was so obvious I didn't think I needed to explain further.
Speaking for myself my curiosity is more likely to be heightened not muted by seeing a woman 'covered up'. However even if she ran around naked it wouldn't induce an irresistible desire, the key word here being irresistible.
I can understand that to many even an unrequited desire would be offensive, hence the pressure to enforce a covering up policy. If it's voluntary on the part of the 'coveree' I have no problem with it, if it's enforced against their will then I have a major problem with it, but only in the context of my moral values, and who am I to impose those on others.
When i have been to Arabic countries foreign women are expected to dress in an 'appropriate manner'! Infact being a non-muslim your not allowed to travel to certain parts of certain arab nations. SOOO, my point is that u need to respect your host nations ways; 'When in Rome do what the Romans do'. So While i don't expect all Muslim women to walk around in Jeans and a T shirt etc... i think the removal of the full head veil would be appreciated. This has been my view, WELL before all this 9/11 .. Iraq war, bombings in London etc... Just my view
In principle I agree, but let me pose the following:
Here in the 'civilised west' we value tolerance of various faiths and beliefs, hence in general we allow practices that are considered compatible with those beliefs, and make changes to our social infrastructures to accomodate them, even to the point where this (as it would seem) presents problems, whether of a real or percieved nature.
However part of that is accepting that other nations, such as those you mention are not so inclined and that travel to those nations may cause culture shock and/or behavioral adjustment. Now, are they inflexible and repressive - or are they just holding truer to their beliefs and cultural norms thus resisting their dilution in what they may see as our misguided drive for some social homegenity?
As an example, a women wearing revealing clothing in a religious area because she doesn't believe that a woman needs to cover up (and I have seen it several times) - is she holding true to her value system or being inconsiderate and offensive? Now, reverse that and consider the wearing of the naqib in the west, then ask the same question.