That one's not lost on me, NIC... trust me.Even if this culture is discriminatory or violates basic human rights? Are we just supposed to accept that sort of thing without making an attempt at progress?
I'm not saying that this is a clear case of that, read my previous posts in the thread to find my own opinion on the matter. But some people are going to view it in that context. and the argument you are making seems to be supporting the wrong side of that particular debate, IMO. I mean, are homosexuals who move to the US South from gay-friendly countries like The Netherlands or Italy supposed to just accept the fact that here we want to treat them like 2nd class citizens? and stop having same-sex partners because it makes some Americans uncomfortable? accept that we don't recognize their marriages or civil unions or whatever?
By the same token, it's not very likely that I'm going to move to Iran and make out with my partner on a public sidewalk, or move to Saudi Arabia and whine if they won't let me open a corner liquor store.
I've been following some of the hate crimes here in this country, and much of the crimes committed are already just that - crimes. There are unconstitutional laws being passed here, and unconstitutional constitutional amendments. So the discrimination which occurs in some parts of the US may be somewhat tolerated officially, it is still illegal.
But my point is more along the lines of, "Are the muslims in this country here by choice or by no choice?" Of course, most of the muslim women have no choice, but their "man of the family" does, and he has an obligation to ensure that there is some degree of assimilation.
If I cared about a female person, and found out she was moving to a muslim country, I would strongly urge her "either don't go, or refrain from any feminist activities there. Don't challenge the status quo, or you put yourself in jeopardy." My first instinct is don't go there if you have a choice and know you won't like some of the restrictions.