Dying breed?

[Not_Punny]

I don't think the term 'straight' is a good one for hetrosexuals. It implies an introspective attitude unwilling to accept the many colours of sexuality. It sounds like we are on 'the right path' and everyone outside our vision of sexuality is deviating. I am straight and not proud because there's no need to be but I am confident.

I love women and I love men. I just only fuck one of the above: and like everyone else on this little blue ball, that's my way, not the 'right' way.

Just ONE? :biggrin: A very lucky one! :tongue:

You're right. "Straight" is a very presumptuous term.

 

[Not_Punny]

I'd just like to say you look fabulous as always, Madame Punny :wink:

Well, I wish I could say the same of you, but you've taken down your avatar. :biggrin:

 

[Not_Punny]

I think your situation is a lot more common than people realize. It's the one big area where I think gay guys may have things easier than straight guys.

With that said, it's been shown that gay men have similar brain structures to hetero women in the area of emotion, so I think gay guys' relationships may be a little more complex than a lot of straight guys realize.

There's sometimes a little bit of truth to the stereotypes that gay men are challenging to deal with emotionally, and that straight men have the emotional maturity of cavemen.

I wondered why I relate so well to gay guys. Duh! (Did not know this before)

But I don't know if it's true that straight men have the emotional maturity of cavemen. I think they might just be more sensitive than others. So sensitive, in fact, that they'll burn an entire village because someone hurt their feelings! j/k

 

[midlifebear]

Dear Ms. Not Punny:

I've sort of noticed this gay/bi slant of the group, but it seems there are plenty of straight men who post to this site looking for an easy hookup with a woman looking for just what they are packing. What I don't see, curiously enough, are women posting "On Camera Now, looking to masturbate with other women via web cam." Now, why is that? Have all the women who would engage in such shenanigans found a woman-only site (dare I use the L word?) where Lesbians get close and personal with similar of the same persuasion to "vibrate one out' to bend the parlance a bit?

I truly wonder.

 

[Not_Punny]

What's wrong with bi men?? I don't know what some women have against us.

A bisexual man can relate to you just fine Not_Punny. I mean by definition he should have no problem satisfying you sexually or having a long term relationship. Are bisexual men seen as more likely to cheat? Is that it? I was married 17 years and didn't cheat once.

btw-I'll second what was said earlier in the thread... Nice rack!

I'm not saying that something is wrong with bi men -- I just don't understand them. (And I seem to be surrounded with them!)

For example, my guy travels a lot. He calls me this today around lunch time to tell me that this morning, in the hotel sauna, a gentleman had come in and said, "You're pretty..." and starts jerking off right in front of my guy. (There's no one else in the sauna.) The gentleman says, among other things, "You have curly hair just like my wife..."

Anyway, long story made short, he grabs my guy's hand, and ejaculates into it. (The whole time, my guy, apparently is just sort of going along with it, although not "actively" participating.)

Later, as soon as he can escape his morning meetings, my guy is camming to me, telling me about what had happened. My guy is laughing about it, and thinks it's so funny but so hot at the same time.

This kind of thing happens quite frequently. It's like my guy is a guy-magnet. He doesn't have sex with them, and he never gets sucked off and he never ejaculates with other men. He saves the cum (and the story) for bed or phone time with me.

I'm not upset about it. I just wish I understood it.

Especially since most of them are married men?!!

 

[Not_Punny]

Dear Ms. Not Punny:

I've sort of noticed this gay/bi slant of the group, but it seems there are plenty of straight men who post to this site looking for an easy hookup with a woman looking for just what they are packing. What I don't see, curiously enough, are women posting "On Camera Now, looking to masturbate with other women via web cam." Now, why is that? Have all the women who would engage in such shenanigans found a woman-only site (dare I use the L word?) where Lesbians get close and personal with similar of the same persuasion to "vibrate one out' to bend the parlance a bit?

I truly wonder.

LOL, sometimes after reading your posts, I want to whisk you off to a chocolate shop. A demitasse of obscenely dark espresso with a divine morsel of chocolately goodness.

Well, now that THAT is off my chest...

You know, I have NEVER seen such a posting.

I really think that women are the reason that many men are bi. (I won't go into details, but I think that many people can relate to the statement.)

Question is, though, would I cam with another female? I'm not adverse to the female form. But I think we'd get sidetracked with a discussion about ways of getting kids to do homework!! :biggrin1:

 

[Not_Punny]

Hello Punny Girl, maybe you have missed a word out? Don't you mean dying to breed?

:biggrin1:

I collapse onto the floor, flooding my house with tears of uncontrollable laughter.

Good one, COD!!

 

[Not_Punny]

Well...yeah. Straight men are more and more seen as inherently evil by society. Anything bad happens in a marriage or relationship, the courts will 90% of the time see it as the man's fault no matter what. Perhaps a good reason why the number of straight men who refuse to get married or even settle down in their 20s is dwindling fast.

For years and years women have been pretty vocal about how the world would be better off without straight men. It's starting to take it seems.

It's sad. Straight men are sooooo... sexy?! (I'm starting to see what gay men see in them!)

 

[Not_Punny]

Haha, I'm straight, but I seem to be having the opposite problem of all the decent women who I find interesting being lesbians, or least more strongly women-centric bi women. Come to think of it, I think out of the relatively small number of relationships I've had, the majority have been with bi women.

I dunno. I'm nearly 25, and most of the women I know, around my age, are either in long-term relationships or married or gettting married; have kids; are in the process of letting themselves go or have let themselves physically in terms of appearance; or just aren't my type, for whatever reasons. I assume most of those reasons would cross over to your situation.

I'm sure if I could move to your block Punny I could up the aggregate numer of straight men in your area for ya. :biggrin1:

LOL, I've noticed that. Being a mom of teens, it seems that there are far more girls experimenting with all that.

On the other hand, why not?!

If you moved onto my block, I have to warn you that I would be compelled to test your straightness!! :biggrin:

 

[Not_Punny]

it seems like the generation after my own has really become much more curious than mine is. Look back in history the greeks were bi before they even had a word for it. it's nothing new.

Nah, it's nothing new. I just don't know how to relate to it when it comes to relationships.

I have a partly open relationship with a guy who's a guy-magnet. He is faithful to me within our agreements, but still, I don't know if the amount of men (and married men) hitting on him is "normal" or not.

 

[D_Portelay Porquesword]

Looks like you're getting plenty of good advice there Punny Hunny.:wink:

 

[Not_Punny]

Not Punny,

I think it may be a question of demographics. At a certain point no matter how beautiful, smart ,well connected or monied you may be, the number of available men to available women will diminish and then add into the equation that you might want to have something in common with them it may seem abyssmal. Dont freak out . Enjoy your life. Enjoy those who come along and try not to worry so intensely that you snag THE ONE. Some are lucky to find one, others many and many none. The common denominator in all of this is you. You came here by yourself and most likely will leave the same way. ENjoy.

:wink: hello, Naughty, and thanks so much for your kind words.

I'm not necessarily seeking another guy (I have a guy, albeit a bi guy).

I guess what really disturbs me is the number of MARRIED men who hit on my guy, or who hit on us as a couple.

I used to think men liked women -- but mostly what I see is varying degrees of otherwise.

I don't know if it's just the cum-pany that I keep, , or if this is becoming socially prevalent.

 

[Not_Punny]

Looks like you're getting plenty of good advice there Punny Hunny.:wink:

Oh_yeah, baby, I just loooooooooove your hat!!!!

* frantically checks to see if NP has answered OY's earlier post... *

 

[Not_Punny]

Also, I think it could be that mens' standards of women we want a serious relationship with is going up, very much, which shrinks the dating pool even more.

Ah, are we not referring to the dating PUDDLE?! :biggrin:

 

[D_Selmus_Swallow]

If you moved onto my block, I have to warn you that I would be compelled to test your straightness!! :biggrin:

As long as it's an oral exam...I should be fine. :wink:

Of course if it is a fill in the spaces type deal...make sure your spaces are lubed before I fill them in. :biggrin1:

 

[sneakyd]

... I'm starting to wonder...

Are straight men becoming dinosaurs????

No Way ! Even though I´m getting a bit long in the tooth , I don´t think I´ve reached dinosaur status ... yet :biggrin1: . I´m as straight as they come ( apart from a downward curve :redface: )
aveagoodday Not_Punny .

 

[Drifterwood]

Dinosaur ? Like a megasoreass? :biggrin1:

My straightness is particularly throbbing for you, sweet cheeks.

 

[DeepCurve]

I strongly suspect that today's large degree of lifestyle and relationship variations is due to the decline in the importance of monogamous marriage. There was a time when straight marriage (M+F) was everything both socially and economically. So much so that even gay people frequently got married to opposite sex partners. No doubt quite a lot of people *wanted* to behave the way they do today, but those modes of behavior, and types of relationships, were severely stigmatized. Yet we have now reached a point in the USA where a majority of women either live alone or with someone to whom they are not married.

So what is it that has reduced the importance of marriage and monogamous relationships with the opposite sex? I'm going to go out on a limb and assert that it's simply longevity. "Till death do us part" makes a lot more sense when you only expect to live to be 35, and if you want heirs to survive you, you'd better waste no time getting hitched, and start having lots of babies.

In 2009 almost 100% of sexual activity is purely recreational, not procreational. Plenty of people still get called "bastards," but the word has become an opprobrium related to one's character rather than one's parentage. Most people who have been married have also been divorced at least once. In developed countries, children are being born at a rate less than replacement value. (In fact as Asia also becomes wealthier, their birthrates are similarly declining, with the result that some demographers now project that the world's population will peak not later than 2050.) In the post-industrial age, family size has an inverse relationship to family wealth. Life is now long enough that people are no longer concerned about finding a life-long permanent partner, and may even consider it impractical. How can you expect to remain compatible with the same person for 50 or 60 years, after all?

In short, I think we are seeing behaviors and attitudes that were latent all along, but were merely suppressed by the requirements and expectations of society. Now that that is no longer the case, they are coming out to play. The whole world is coming out of the closet, in a way. Which suggests that it's not straight guys (or women) who are a dying breed, merely the predominance of their "standard" way of life. There are still just as many men out there who are turned on by female bodies (and who wouldn't be turned on by Punny's!) but the ways a woman finds them are in flux.

Cheers,
-DC

 

[cockoloco]

Not Punny, you should come to South America.
Straight guys are all over the place.
Ugh.

:rofl:

 

[Sixnuts]

After a year and a half at LPSG--where there seems to be a majority population of gays and bisexuals---and after witnessing in real life the ease with which supposedly straight men can engage in sexual activity with other men..

... I'm starting to wonder...

Are straight men becoming dinosaurs????

I dont think anyone is 100% straight as the saying goes. I thought i was totally straight until i had a chance encounter with a gay friend of mine while slightly drunk and basically let him suck me off after he asked directly.. i was shocked the following day when i was totally sober how much that still turned me on when i recollected what happened... and my intrigue started from there and grew and i started off watching alot of gay porn..to 18 months later where having continued to gradually experiment i now consider myself bisexual, tho not a bottom I have done everything else..love to suck cock:wink:. I prefer women to men tho only just.

I have heard stories from prisons where gay relations are particuarly high that men have been turned from that.. if you have a positive experience where you have been sexually stimulated it triggers something that stays with you. You will notice that in sexually repressed nations gay activity is low.. the men aint open and are riddled with inhibitions.